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Why is this one thinking like this?

Why is this one thinking like this?

This question keeps coming up in my mind anytime I encounter anyone who thinks differently. Just like many, I expected every other person to think like I do but I wonder why the opposite is what I get. Even the people I love still fall short of this.  Why is this happening? Or is this happening to only me?

Then I come up with this!

A new born baby is of course coming to this world with an empty memory. As soon as he land on earth, he begin to learn-Lessons from family, friends, environment, internet world, events, happenings and so on. All these sums up to develop his belief system and that’s it!

So, if every child including me passes through this stage of our lives, then it means we should have different way we look at things because we never go through the same way of life!

That lady that always affirms that all men are wicked has very important reasons for saying that don’t blame her.

That guy that is always saying that life is wicked has very important reasons best known to him to say so. Don’t blame him.

Those Nigerians that keep saying that “Nigeria cannot get better” has reasons best known to them. Don’t blame them!

That yahoo guy or flirt that believes he cannot make it except through that means has an important reason best known to him. Don’t blame him!

That lady that believes she can only marry that guy that can always give an assurance of a nice Porsche has reasons best known to her. Don’t blame her

That student that believes he cannot score above average has reasons best known to him. Don’t blame him!

If only you can look through from their point of view and see what they are seeing the way they are seeing it: if only you can understand them: if only you are close to them and you go through all they have gone through: if only you are the one living their life right now, will you not also be doing the same thing or probably worse or less?

What then should we do if shouldn’t blame?

There is nothing as satisfying as relating with someone who always understand me even in my wrongs and worst. Many people seek acceptance rather than wealth. Even the cause of the blind race to get wealth all reflects their yarning for acceptance.

More to come (The next article tells us more of this. Don’t miss out)

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In diverse we live!

Let me shock you with the fact that “we can have a million different solutions to a problem if we can get a million people to develop their individual possible solution to that problem.” That is how unique we human are created to be.

The complexity of human is unexplainable and I am still amazed about this unique diversities. My recent experience with a group of young and purposeful youths at Unilag book club got me astonished and thinking at the same time. Here is my story:

As I walked majestically to the meeting point of about twenty different brains to give our review about a book we had just read, I had prepared to talk best so as to impress all of them especially the two crush of mine I intend to move close to. I had longed to get close to them not because of their beauty alone but because of how passionate they live, for what they love doing.

As we proceed into the agenda, I experienced the shock of my life as I listened to others talk. Even those that started with the statement “I don’t have anything to say but...” still end up driving home an important point.

 As at the time it got to my turn to talk, I had been taught a thousands more things I couldn’t grasp from my personal reading of which I might not possibly get in a thousand years on my own. And with that, the ego I took to the venue has finally diminished. So I only talked about my breath taken point of view with full passion and enthusiasm in a short time.

 As soon as I finish talking, I received worm smiles from everyone especially those of my crush and right in my heart I felt like jumping up for this achievement.

Then I had that lesson struck my head that “I don’t have all points, but I have a unique important point that nobody else has and as it applies to me, then it also applies to others.”       

If you want to know that your opinion is not always the best, let multiple of others give you their opinions on the same issue, then you will realize how unique and diverse human can be. 

Just as it is impossible to find two people with the same DNA, so as our pattern of thinking can be totally different! You are not an highland of knowledge but rather an highland of your point of view.

In a nut shell, be confident about your pattern of thinking and everything you do because that is only unique to you alone. Also always learn to respect the opinion of others no matter how silly it my look because just like you, it is unique to them! 

Why do we have such diversities? (Watch out for next article on this for my opinion!)  

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Letter to Iya Michael!

This is for IYA MICHEAL

She deserves some accolades!

If there is anyone who has not just seen but also touches the pintle i am keeping for my wife, then it is Iya Micheal

 If there is anyone that i comprise anything for her food, don’t think too far than Iya Micheal

If there is anyone who cares about my fresh body, then that will be Iya Micheal.

Her first prescription for any of my illness is a very hot “Eba” on the table. If i cannot devour it, she then goes on to get the other normal method.

Turning sticks and wires are her tools to discipline me. Six strokes are enough for me to dance disco in tears.

I call her giant woman. Very tall and hefty is her physique. Don’t try to dare her.

Jovial and playful she is. Her slang is “no dulling”

The best role model i needed to be hard working.

My conscious effort to be her good friend unleashes the efficacy of a loving mother.

Her ASSURANCE is more than a PORSCHE or 45million naira

Here am i, her proud son “Okurin meta ati abo”. I love you mama!

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It's not me alone

Oyebanji Olamide, if you are by any means in any of these shoes, here is my advice for you!

It’s not you alone

“Why will the person I wish will be my spouse look away from me and go for my friends? Those that don’t go for my friends will rather go for my enemy. Not once, not twice, why always? Why?

Why am I always jealous? Why the jealousy?

Why do I look like this? Look at others, they are more beautiful.

Why are they my parent? Why can’t I have rich parents?

Why can’t I have a perfect life?

Why am I always odd? Why am I the only odd?

Why me? Why me?

Is it me? Is it not me? Who then is it? Who can it be?

No! My head is not just ok right now? No! I need to cry it out right now.

No! I need answers to this right now.”

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Honey, I understand.

You are not the only one feeling this way. Many people also feel the same way but unfortunately, they will not make it obvious and they won’t tell you either. I always have some of those feelings too but most times, since it’s not easy to let go of it, I go to GOD IN PRAYERS to grant me SOLACE! And that’s the best!

MOVE CLOSER TO GOD DEAR! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FRIEND. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

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