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The familiarity concept


The familiarity concept

What is the name of that law that states that you become whatever you’re familiar with? If can’t be karma, what then can we call it?

Let me tell you quickly a personal story to buttress my point:

Being a student who after a whole lot of starving, using garri for varieties and other student food, now going home knowing the kind of delicacy you’d eat, can be a great joy to students- especially someone like me who is a foodie. But then, there’s this challenge that always accompany my going home, it’s about how my mom complain about everything I do (I don’t tidy the house, I wake up late, I don’t help her, I’m eating all her food, I’m always on my phone etc) and most times I try to correct this, but she seems not to get satisfied, not for once. Over time I get frustrated and in no time, I’ll be tired of home- wanting to get back to school.

Now, getting back to school, I realized that I always do the same thing I disliked my mom doing to me. My roommate happens to be my cousin and this time in school, I’m always behaving like my mom- i tidy the room (what I normally don’t do at home) and I’ll always complain if my cousin scatters it again. Like I do exactly things my mom does to me that I don’t like.

Now, that’s my own story. I know many of us have that kind of story of things that we tend to do, what we said we aren’t going to do (or what we dislike people doing to us).

You hated how your dad beat your mom; you don't like how someone close to you is addicted to something; you are always sad about how poor your parents are, you can go on to name it- but in the long run, you find yourself doing the same thing you didn’t like. What could have caused that?

Shouldn’t your hatred towards that thing be enough for you not to do it? Or is it that you are destined to do it? Or are you thinking it’s a generational curse?

Let me call it “THE LAW OF FAMILIARITY”

Many of us don't know that, while we are used to seeing (or saying) something, it’s getting a permanent stay in our subconscious and what the subconscious do is to automatically give an output (a response) to an input (or similar to the input) that has been stored in it- it’s programmed.

Sometimes, you don’t know when you hiss, you just can't control what happened. Yes! It’s because of what has been stored in your subconscious.

 How then can we uninstall (unlearn) this sabotaging reality?

Consciously, intentionally, attentively start to reprogram this law. How? Whenever you want to start doing it, or you are already doing it, retrace your step or reach out to someone (someone that knows about it and is always ready to help) immediately. You won’t stop immediately and so you must be consistent until you can now stay free of it- when it has been deleted and replaced at the subconscious level.

Will you rather reprogram or let it continue to sabotage you?

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COFFEE EYES


COFFEE EYES

It was on the day I wrote my final papers that I met Obinna. I was rushing to leave the exam hall in order to avoid the water and zobo baptism that will initiate my coursemates and I into the next stage as graduates and although I was excited to finally conclude my studies, I was in no mood to return to my hostel dirty, soaked through and leaking liquid from every pore in my skin. A few drinks with my friends in a quiet bar was my idea of celebrating and I would have gotten away with my plan but for a guy who splashed zobo, not even water, on my face, the minute I stepped out of the hall.

To say I was shocked would be an understatement. By the way I froze there, mouth gaping and bleeding zobo, I was sure that I looked like fish flung out of a red sea. I had chosen to take the hall's side door to avoid an attack but my effort had been rendered useless. I was so carried away with my escape that I did not notice him creep up behind me.

When I had wiped enough zobo from face to enable me see clearly, I beheld a total stranger laughing at me. He was quite tall, light skinned with eyes the colour of coffee. I wanted to be angry at him, to shout insults, anything to express the way I felt towards him for thwarting my perfect plan after I had bragged to my friends that I would return to the hostel dry and unstained but I couldnt.. It was his eyes. The way they twinkled with mischief and excitment held me spellbound. He glanced behind him and I looked as well and saw more students coming towards us, carrying missles. He smiled when he saw my eyes widen in alarm told me to run. I ran, hoping no one would chase me for long and they didnt.

What a guy I thought to myself as I slowed down to walk as calmly as I could past the security guards parading the front gate of my school. If he had commanded me to fly even though I had no idea how to acomplish that, by God, I would try. I found myself thinking about him for the rest of the day. That was until my best friend Paul, called and asked me to join the gang at the Ochez bar, two streets away from my hostel.

On arriving at the bar, I hailed paul appeared to be waiting for me at the entrance and we entered the bar together. He steered me towards the exclusive area where we had contributed money to rent for the two hours that we would celebrate there. Everyone of my friends were there and a few more people. One of which I discovered to be my assailant. While Paul took the seat next to his girlfriend, I had to sit next to Mr.Coffee eyes because there were no other seats available.

After I had placed an order for a bottle of Smirnoff Ice and had recieved my drink, uncapped with a straw in it, when Mr.Coffee turned those eyes of his on me and I began to choke on my drink. He quickly pulled me towards him and hit my back lightly till I was breathing properly.
''Are you alright?'', he asked. I nodded, not trusting myself to speak coherently. He still had his left hand on my shoulder and had apprently forgotten it was there. ''You are the girl I poured zobo on earlier today abi?'' I felt my blood beginining to boil. Indignation got the better of me.
''Poured? Seriously? It felt like you slapped me with zobo!''. He started laughing at me all over again.
''Sorry. It is a normal thing nau. Did you think that you would escape?'' What could I have said to a guy that was clearly enjoying himsf at my expense?
''But you dont know me! why did you do it?''
''Look, no hard feelings okay? I just wanted to have fun. Sorry.'' Although he apologised, I knew he wasn't sorry. Not with the way his eyes twinkled and that cheshire grin that displayed a perfect dentition.

''My name is Obinna. What is your name?'' I took a deep breath and every indignation I felt towards him ease off as I exhaled.
'Lisa,'' I said simply, wondering what next he would ask.
''Una don seprate from the group abi?'' Paul said loudly, drawing attention to Obinna and I. Paul... I love my bestfriend to the moon and back but he could be annoying sometimes. Obinna just smiled and continued what he was saying about how the world like to tell people how they should live their lives. We were so absorbed with our talk that we forgot our friends and reached a dimension only we could relate.

 I liked Obinna. The way his lips curve in a permanent half-smile, the way his slender hands flew everywhere as if he was painting a picture of what he was saying on air. I liked the fact that he didnt try to flatter or impress me. I also liked the fact that he thought a lady should dream as high as any man. I liked him and it was as simple as that.

We exchanged numbers that evening and agreed to meet the next day at a fast food joint close to our school. That was the beginining of my short-lived friendship with Obinna. He was a final year student from the department of civil engineering but had finished his final papers some days before I did. He was fun to be with. He thought deeply about things but lived in a carefree manner.

It was all strange and new to me how someone had learnt to conform to the expectations of the world around me. He taught me how to discover who I truly was and how to be comfortable being myself. He taught me how to love me properly like I deserved and how to let go... to be free.

Time went by and my defence came. One month after my defence my parents began to call me, asking me to return home. I tried as much as I could forestall my return to the point of faking illness until my dad got fed up and ordered me home regardless. I called Obinna and told him that I wanted to see him in a private place and he gave me his address.

The next day, I knocked on his door and discovered to my convenience that he was alone. It was the first time I was visting him.

He offered me a bottle of malt. For a while, we carried on like we usually did, chatting and laughing but I was feigning the lightheartedness and he noticed.
''Lisa?''
''Yeah?'' I responded, looking at my hands I won't see his eyes.
''What is it?''
''Uhum... I uhum... I am leaving'' I replied.
''To where? Why?''
''Lagos. My parents...''
''Oh...'' that was not the reply I expected. I wanted him to sound cheated out an amazing friendship just like I felt.
''Yeah.''
''When will you leave?''
''Tomorrow''
''So soon?'' I nodded. I explained that I had been stalling for sometime and couldnt anymore. He did not argue with me.

 I have always felt uncomfortable saying goodbye so I didn't instead, what I said was, ''I have to go now.'' time had flown by while we chatted and I want to see Paul and the rest as well. He stood up to hug me. It wasn't like the one he had always given me. With arms around each other, I inhaled his scent, willing my mind to remember while I slowed my heart beat to match his. We hugged for a long time and I drew back. I just had to go. Obinna's eyes became darker than they usually were. Only God knows what emotions he was hiding behind them and for the first time since I had zobo splashed on my face, there was no smile on his face.

I turned to go.
''Lisa''
''Yes?'' I looked back.
''I was going to ask you Lisa. To ask you to be my girlfriend. I swear I was going to. You are the only girl I have ever felt this sure about.''
''Obinna...''
''Please Lisa, I love you.'' He said those words as if they were forcing themselves from his mouth. His voice was thick and intense.

''I have to go!'' I said as I turned and ran out of his room. It was either that or i lose the little control that held me together. What good was his love if we could not be together? Maybe we would meet sometime in the future or never. Maybe he would still love me or most probably, moved on and give what is left of his heart to someone else. Maybe... Just Maybe.

Ohabughiro Chinwendu(Wendy)

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The multiplier


One day, everyone will be a circular musician!

The spirit of multiplication? What meaning does it bring to your mind? Or how else can you explain people's view of the spirit of multiplication? What will the future of a multiplier be?

You still don't understand? I will clarify my point.

Using Nigerian musical stars Wizkid and Kizz Daniel as an example, Wizkid pulled out of "E.M.E" to start his own record label. In this course, he helped other upcoming artiste to reach their stars. This act is similar to Kizz Daniel who also pulled out of "G world entertainment" to start "Flyboy Inc."

The spirit of multiplication is what 'record label' is all about. Record labels are the companies that market recorded music and music videos. The act of recruiting and development of new artiste can be  referred to as the spirit of multiplication.
Most Nigerian musicians who indulge themselves in such act are doing great music.

 Only in Nigeria, can you count the number of good musicians we have? Don't you see that they are the greatest influence to the young ones?

What a spirit of multiplication!!!

Now, to the gospel musicians and other professions (and professionals) who aren't embracing this multiplication concept; can I ask why you aren't doing so? Is it not God's will that  we should multiply?

I even heard that some artist (artwork category) are very selfish. But why? How much influence are you having with your selfish greatness?

Will you rather embrace the spirit of multiplication?

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Grandparent Palaver



Will you like to be a grandparent?

What are your plans for a future where you will be retired to home alone?

If you aren't thinking of that already or you are saying 'I haven't even marry, you are asking about something that I must have been a grandparent. It's still far joorh ", listen to this my story.

I have had a couple of grandma that will beg me to come stay with them because they are lonely at home. For them, it's not the money or the house or food but just staying idle every time.

Though they know they are weak, but they have been a working person while they were younger and they can't just be idle now because of age.

So do you see why you need to think about this?
If you seek my advice on this subject matter, I will suggest two options:

1. Begin to utilize your talent. Try view in your mind those that bless us with the use of their talents (the likes of Bill Gate, Mandela, Enoch Adeboye, etc), they are having a beautiful old age.
Develop your talent if not for now, what about for your old age when you can no longer work for money.

2. Be a writer: like I always tell people that  'everyone should be a writer'. Probably not everyone but most likely everyone that is doing great in life. Why?
There are times you need to reach out your professionalism or advice to wider audience and writing is one of the best ways.

At old age while you are at home, it takes you just a book and a pen to start writing. Isn't this beautiful?

Let's stop having 'dependent grandparents' but let's start having 'contributing one'
Let's stop having 'lonely grandparents that even prefer to die' and let's start having 'grandparents that empower and enlight the young ones'.

Start developing a better old age from now or won't you?

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The voice of blood; Episode 22


The voice of blood
Final Episode

Episode 22
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The conducive environment, fascinating colours all round; colourful light at different positions; sounds sweeting the soul; cool air gracing the air.

Faces graced with heavy makeovers that transformed a mother to a 'sweet sixteen'; the ears was the pillar for colourful shining golds; hairs in different patterns and length; the body was decorated with different versions of gowns; they were higher than they really are; the look on their faces explains beauty better.

But beside each  of these heads were another set of heads which were neither hairless nor short. They wore suits in common but of different colours  and designs; their shining shoes and wrist watches were outstanding.

Welfare was perfect. A set of people in uniform served the drinks while the guests were going around to exchange pleasantries.

The chairs and tables setting was exceptional. Looked as if more of standing would be done and when the time comes to sit, it was already provided with maximum of two people on a table except Carolina's Parent's table which was three because they already informed the organizers about them bringing their daughter. This made the chairs to become one more than the hundred budgeted for.

In just about few minutes before the commencement of the program, Ademi and Catherine walked into the hall holding hands. Catherine greeted some people while Ademi just followed her about. Just because he wasn't comfortable, he pestered Catherine to reduce her pleasantries and let them go have their seats.

The were behaving as if everything was fine but Ademi keeps wondering why she chose to pretend in front of these people. Anyways he flowed along and enjoyed the moment while it lasted.

In no time, the event started and it was a nice place to be. After about an hour into the activities, Carolina and her parents walked in but didn't get attention at all. They had their seats and it seemed like they all looked tensed.

The varieties served was a course on it's own. Except the fact that you want to comport yourself in settings like this, you sure would want to taste every bit of what was being carried around but then, the life in the program will also take your mind a little bit away from food and junks served. The fun; advice, testimonies, games, music and many more lightened up everyone and it was as if they shouldn't go back to their homes.

In no time, it was the last person's turn to give the final talk for the day and they did think they had seen it all until this section. It was supposed to be a closing remarks but it turned out to be the best part.

OMAA was a good friend of the host and was asked to take the closing remarks. He didn't just do that, he also brought Ademi and Carolina close again.

Everyone watched him as he walked towards the stage and held the microphone with his two hands. Then he began:

"Hi everyone. I am so glad to be part of this program and i so much appreciate what this has done to my marriage. I know many of us have had this kind of nice time with our spouse(s) for a long time. I feel i need to say something quickly.

Everyone please look at your spouse eyeball to eyeball and tell him/her that 'do you know that i am attached to you with a strong cord?'.
Say again that 'Do you know that what we have together is not just love but an unnoticed covenant'. Everyone said this but with a surprise face.

I can see the reactions on your faces and if your question is how, then please listen.

Have you ever questioned the importance of blood? I don't mean its importance in the body but in other ways it's been used. Why do ritualists and other evil doers have to kill a living thing not for other thing but because of the blood? Have you ever thought about it? Have you ever questioned how oath works just because of the blood included? Have you ever noticed why Jesus Christ (as the Christians believe) had to shed his blood to break the evil covenant? (Christians believe that you can be washed away from all sins and evil curses by the blood of Jesus. But why blood?)

There is this voice a blood has and we don't seem to notice.

 Blood is the foundation or backbone of every covenant and it takes another blood to change such covenant" at this point, Ademi and Carolina were having more understanding of what they had done. On their different seats, they were already scared and Carolina almost started crying before she controlled it.
Omaa continued "Do you know that the night of a wedding where the newly married couple get to officially and legally have their first sex is another covenant to a new life.

One thing about sex that we don't know is that it is spiritual and an attachment that has no visible cord but has effect like a covenant. Just like a conjoined twins have no option than to do things together; that whatever happens to A also happens to B so also is sex. You don't want to curse someone you have had sex with because you are also cursing yourself and it's same as when you bless them.

So as we are couples here, let's know that there is a cord joining us and we should always wish our spouses well. Thank you." OMAA dropped the microphone and was heading to his sit but while getting down on the stage, he went back like he forgot to say something. He took the microphone again "So sorry to come back, i want to say that if there's anyone that thinks he/she is receiving the impact of a covenant, please see me at the end of this event. Thanks"

Immediately he said this, Ademi felt that he needed to see OMAA but he was scared of how to explain to his wife because she can end up asking why he wants to see him and all. Carolina wanted to do the same but was also afraid of her parents asking or wanting to follow her so she locked up and promised herself to get his contact anyway.

While Ademi and his wife was heading out, he reluctantly told her that he wished he could talk with OMAA and immediately, Catherine took it up and took him right towards OMAA without even asking why he wanted to see him but Ademi was still scared because she was going to stay with him.

Ademi's fear was killed when he met with OMAA and Catherine excused them to meet her celebrity crush. In fact, that was her own intention to use the opportunity to talk to the organizer of the event and since OMAA and her celebrity crush were friends, she quickly used the opportunity wisely.

Ademi started pouring out everything to OMAA and while he was doing that, Carolina was in the car with her parents heading home but in few minutes after, they turned back towards the hall like they forgot something. And truly her parents forgot to see their friends they planned to see and after receiving the calls from them, they had to turn back.

While they got to the hall, it looked to Carolina that her parents were going to stay long and so she excused them while she was going to wait for them in the hall.

As soon as she left her parents presence, she started looking for OMAA and while doing that, Catherine came disturbing the conversation between Ademi and OMAA. She took an excuse and was very serious.

As soon as they got out of the hall, Carolina met with OMAA and started discussing. Catherine gave Ademi his phone to pick a WhatsApp call from a foreign country. She was really boiling like someone who has been betrayed. Ademi picked the call and it was a voice of a female 'hello! This is Bimbola. You read my message and didn't reply and you think i will leave you alone? You better reply and let's start talking because you are the one behind it and i am sure of it" she hung up and Ademi was wondering what she was talking about.

He was about checking the message when Catherine snatched the phone and opened the same message to show him. "What is this? How will you get someone pregnant and you didn't tell me about it? So you have a wife and all you are doing is to play me to get a permanent stay here. No wonder you were pretending as if you are impotent. You played your game well but right now, you have failed because i am done with you and you are leaving this country tomorrow." She left with anger without hearing the side of Ademi. Another disaster at the peak of solving one.

He couldn't even think. All his mind was to get to OMAA and finish his explanations including the new thing that happened and beg him to help out by explaining all to his wife because he was scared to do so.

He walked towards OMAA and was praying he should still meet him there but another shock happened. At the entrance, Carolina was leaving while Ademi met her. It was a big shock to the two lovers and all you can hear was a very loud Silence. Both of them kept looking at each other.

'This is the person i was talking about,' Ademi and Carolina finally said to OMAA to break the silence but OMAA was already late for his flight. His escorts were already hastening him and what he did was to pray for them and led them to Christ. He told them that since they had a multiple blood covenant, that the only way to break it is to use another blood which is the blood of Jesus Christ.

In no time, he left them in the room and both of them continued to look at each other. Ademi took up the courage and told her everything that happened. She began to cry again and she was about telling him her own story too but couldn't because her parents were already calling her. All she said before she left was that she was already pregnant for another Person named Paul not knowing that Ademi knew him.

They couldn't finish the talk before Carolina left. Both of them managed to hug but it was a slight one. Ademi also left for home.

Catherine welcomed him with a divorce letter and in few days, he was back to his country. Bimbola received him into her house and they start a new life.

Carolina ended up marrying Paul before she gave birth to a baby boy- Carolina gave him Ademi.

Bimbola gave birth to a twin- two girls- he named then Carolina and Catherine.


The End

Writer: Quadri Michael aka OMAA

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