But Why?

*BUT WHY?*
Visualizing around the ages,
Viewing all the ladies,
Variation in all the stages.
Not even a value added lady,
Violating all the laws,
She just keep on crossing the lawn.
Various men trapped by her bed till dawn,
Sonorously singing “oh baby!”
Vicky! Haba!
No more bra?
All men longing to hide under your umbrella.
Not because you are a vision carrier,
Most times, it is the under,
The one you refuse to cover,
That is making them go gaga.
But who then will be my Val?
I mean value added landmark.
I don’t know if you bother.
It is those under the cover,
I mean Jesus border,
Not those that use Him to cover,
But those that really take Him as brother.

*Happy birthday Philipbabs!*
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The littles

                 THE LITTLES!​
*Dedicated to:* Philipsbabs
*“Just as food is to the body; make over is to a bae (slay mama); and an apple laptop is to a Gboy, so as those little mission is to those ends you have in mind.”*
"He that is faithful in little will be faithful in all" is a timeless principle that caught my attention some months ago. I later discover that INTEGRITY is that one word that can best describe it. Follow us as we unvail or remind you a secrete you neglected long time ago.

Many at times, Most of all our aspirations are what we are not having in our reach and that of course is good. After all it is better we begin with the end in mind.

 While some are scared of the possibility of their visions, some are still bothered on how to start, and some considering some things which i tag “excuses...” All of which are the the fight-backs of a heap of failure of the littles we plan to achieve. Those littles may look so small that you don't even bother much about it but my dear that is the beginning point on the lane of greatness.

One time or the other, we have made a decision to do something always or periodically which we have even forgotten we said that just because of its less effect or littleness. Examples of those can be
 Stretching your body every morning
 Carrying water flask containing drinkable water everywhere
 Night shower
Reading everyday
Praying every morning
Saving a particular amount periodically
Using the toilet every morning
Making new friends periodically
Having a quiet time
And lot more. If you are pleased, write yours down as soon as you remember.

We have so much despise these littles that we don't know they count. Yes! It is very important just as important as your highest aspirations, visions and purpose.
*I here someone ask that can we all be leaders?*
 Yes of course, we all can be a leader but the leader in you starts when you begin with the compliance to those little things you plan to do consistently or accomplish at a specific time. Sometimes, we may tend to forget, but you can always go back to it as soon as we remember or we better write it down so that we can always review it.
*I perceive another person ask why this is as important as our greatest aspirations*
Let me tell you emphatically that,
 Just as the rudder is to a ship; a foundation is to a building; food is to a body; make-up/over is to a bae (slay mama); and an apple laptop is to a Gboy, so as those little missions is to those ends you have in mind.
Why?
When you make those promises to yourself, little did you know that it's already stored in your subconscious. So that is why when you later remember after many years of neglecting it, probably when you see someone else doing the same thing, you felt some disappointment within you but you may forgo it after some seconds just because of its littleness and less effect but unfortunately, the brain has registered a failure already.
It's quite unfortunate again that many of us have made a lot of little promises and have failed to accomplish them which has led to a piled up registered failure in our subconscious. But the opposite happens when you achieve them. It gives multiples of success that is enough to back you up when you dream about a very big ambition. It just keeps saying "you can do it!” just as why you want to approach that long admired lady after watching an Indian love film. Smiles
I don't believe anyone is a dullard or anything is so hard. If only anyone in that state of mind can regain his integrity, do away with biasness and start his focus on the little.
You wish to know mathematics or any calculation based subject, then start from the little. Start as low as multiplication tables, BODMAS, conversions, etc if you don't know them. When you achieve in knowing those little ones well, you will be happy about your learning. That will motivate you to move to the next level. That's what i do when i teach.
Finally, there are some people that will land on the right track of greatness if only they have continued with those little things they abandon. It’s not too late to start. Start now.
How you do one thing is how you do everything. Be faithful in little so that you can be faithful in all.

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my guy will understand!

*Do you think of asking this question sometimes ago?*
*Question:* as a female, Is there anything wrong for my male friend who is just a friend to come stay with me? Or
 He's a friend and he just wanna stay with me for sometime. The problem is Not in his staying but how do I tell my fìancee about it?
*Please listen*
 Na wahala be that o. It will be somehow expensive decision to tell your fiance(or not to tell him) especially the one you yourself know he is that so jealous type. Some people are naturally jealous. They jealous even when no string is attached. Just friends. So that kind of person will be hard to tell such kind of things.
I think it's just few people (fiance) that can understand without doubt. So it's a delicate issue.
*Still on the matter*
I will not advice any of my friend to do such a thing even if he knows that his Fiance will accept it
Why?
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 "my fiance will understand. He is understanding. He knows that my friend very well... This... That"
Look at it in this way:
1. what about when he seek advice from his friends or someone and they poison his mind?
2. What about if what you know about him is just a drop of water in an ocean
3. Add your own "what about" too
So I ask; you consider all the what about?
 *Besides that,*
Still on my own thinking and my own map of the world,
I wrote something not quite long about friendship with opposite sex (go to www.tumiministry.blogspot.com if you need to see it or ask me personally for it)
*What's in there?*
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 Going into physics
A law which applies human says "unlike poles attract, and like poles repel."
When you place two magnet side by side, if they are unlike poles they will repel automatically even when nobody touch it if they are in the "field" but if they are like poles, they will attract automatically.
*What does that means?*
There is a field where opposite sex attract automatically (except when they are relatives). Both of you didn't think of it like that, but you both Don't​ know how it happened. Nobody seduces the other, it's just a natural principle. *It will definitely attract automatically in the field*
 *Why am I saying all this?*
When everything eventually went well and your fiance gives you the go ahead, you must also consider the *field* so as to avoid story that touch. Smiles
So as not to write too much, I conclude with this;
Prevention is better than cure. So find a third alternative. Get a way where both of wouldn't stay together.
*Note*: The principle applies to everybody but the advice doesn't apply to everybody. There are always exception but know yourself and make the best move.
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the Third-alternative!

*THE THIRD ALTERNATIVE!*
“Wow junior you scored 50% in the last exams. That’s good but one thing that I will happy about and will be expecting very soon is when you bring home the best result just like Tracy. (You wrap your hands around his neck). I know you will make me proud!”
“Did I just hear that you misplace the whole bunch of keys for the office? Take this spare from me because I am sure that from now, you will make this very safe.” Will he?
“Did you draw this Becky? Wow you are beginning to improve. No wonder our customers were just able to point out few errors! I am definitely sure that if you can practice more, very soon you will Wow the world. I will suggest you pay more attention and take your time when drawing. Feel free to come to me.
“Temilade, I am very sure that you really don’t want to pay attention to mathematics because if you will, you will soon be the overall best student in mathematics.”
 *Third-alternative is just like helping a child to crawl by placing his best toy a little distance from him. It is making a snail see it in himself that he can be faster than lion.*
*It is helping you see the fault by your own self with the enthusiasm of making it right!*
*It is using* “I was thinking if we can …” rather than “we have to …”
*It is simply saying that* “I was thinking if some writers will ..” rather than “writers with their useless clichés”
*Will you rather make use of the third-alternative?*

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Criticism!

Criticism
 Bgaam! You zoom your sport lovely car on a steady tiled road to quickly visit your good colleague at work.
 You are about knocking his door but something tells you to eave drop before knocking and you obeyed.
 What you here is a conversation that you are interested in. Do you care to know? If yes, here it goes:
Mr. X: just imagine! That your volatile, too-forward, half-hearted, friend called…(he was referring to you). He will be doing as if he knows it all (he painted you black and exaggerate so much). You really don’t bother because you are not in good terms with him so you await your friend’s response.
You were shocked when you hear your friend’s respond. Instead of defending or at least shun him, he added to it. You, standing right at the door mat, how will you feel? What will you do?
 Haba! Just exactly how you will feel assuming you are the criticized as illustrated in the scenario above is what criticizing does to the criticized.
Have you experienced criticism about a person you haven’t met but you disliked him/her immediately?
Criticism can make the listener get frustrated and wanting to harm the criticized. It can also make the criticized think suicide or bring down his rising potential or zeal.
 Just mention a celebrity and ask for people’s opinion about him and you will hear a lot of criticism most especially in politics. Check Facebook or any other social media to prove me right.
 I must tell you my fact that criticism is not the best solution to solve problem you have discovered. What it does is negatively affects the listener and the criticized.
“Do unto others what you want them to do to you”
 I have discovered that many (if not all) of those you criticize, you know little about them. All your proofs are based on the information you got from a third party some of which are not correct or exaggerated. Even if they are all correct info, criticism I think will not solve the problem. It hurts and never strengthens the relationship but rather demolish it and build up hatred.
The only advantage is that it gives you attention which is unnecessary.
 I don’t dispute the fact that there might be truth in what you are saying or you are trying to be honest and saying things as how they are but it is only few people that can pick out your point in the use of your words without having negative feelings about you.
 Definitely, there are better means of passing info of any kind or without leaving a negative feeling in the heart of the partner. It is called “the third alternative”.
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Dedicated to Adeyemi Adedeji and Famakinde Micheal.
     

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