my guy will understand!

*Do you think of asking this question sometimes ago?*
*Question:* as a female, Is there anything wrong for my male friend who is just a friend to come stay with me? Or
 He's a friend and he just wanna stay with me for sometime. The problem is Not in his staying but how do I tell my fìancee about it?
*Please listen*
 Na wahala be that o. It will be somehow expensive decision to tell your fiance(or not to tell him) especially the one you yourself know he is that so jealous type. Some people are naturally jealous. They jealous even when no string is attached. Just friends. So that kind of person will be hard to tell such kind of things.
I think it's just few people (fiance) that can understand without doubt. So it's a delicate issue.
*Still on the matter*
I will not advice any of my friend to do such a thing even if he knows that his Fiance will accept it
Why?
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 "my fiance will understand. He is understanding. He knows that my friend very well... This... That"
Look at it in this way:
1. what about when he seek advice from his friends or someone and they poison his mind?
2. What about if what you know about him is just a drop of water in an ocean
3. Add your own "what about" too
So I ask; you consider all the what about?
 *Besides that,*
Still on my own thinking and my own map of the world,
I wrote something not quite long about friendship with opposite sex (go to www.tumiministry.blogspot.com if you need to see it or ask me personally for it)
*What's in there?*
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 Going into physics
A law which applies human says "unlike poles attract, and like poles repel."
When you place two magnet side by side, if they are unlike poles they will repel automatically even when nobody touch it if they are in the "field" but if they are like poles, they will attract automatically.
*What does that means?*
There is a field where opposite sex attract automatically (except when they are relatives). Both of you didn't think of it like that, but you both Don't​ know how it happened. Nobody seduces the other, it's just a natural principle. *It will definitely attract automatically in the field*
 *Why am I saying all this?*
When everything eventually went well and your fiance gives you the go ahead, you must also consider the *field* so as to avoid story that touch. Smiles
So as not to write too much, I conclude with this;
Prevention is better than cure. So find a third alternative. Get a way where both of wouldn't stay together.
*Note*: The principle applies to everybody but the advice doesn't apply to everybody. There are always exception but know yourself and make the best move.
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