can't a lady ask a guy she loves out?

*Why can’t a lady ask a guy that she loves out?*
I saw a guy and I loved him. I have watched him for some while and I tend to love his personality. But why can’t ask him out?
*NOTE*: this is just an advice from a point of view of which there might be many better views.
Bimpe! Let me talk to you. Open your ears and listen.
Seriously, I think there is nothing bad to fall in love with Bayo’s personality and make a move to *ask him OUT!*
 But wait o; ask him out for what?
You see him, his dressing is high class; the way he talks is so sweet like Pizza; he his good and popular at what he do; he is an extrovert; he has your suitable body features; he walks like a model; he… and you have watched him for some while, he isn’t a bad boy like that! And you loved him for that!
 Is it that simple to love? Or are you trying to practice the American films you have watched?
Will you Open your Brain and listen?
Going into relationship with a person is a strong thing- be it friendship, courtship, dating etc. but I wonder how this generation just renders their manifesto to a lady so easily.
*“You saw her passing and you liked her like that. You approach her and you apply your formula-almighty formula. At the end, you get her mobile number and then you start the 4unit course with her and after some days, months, or years, you finally win the election to register your name to join her boyfriend’s list.” Shai!”*
And you want it be meaningful or last long? Maybe just few can.
*Let me teach you a better style.*
The key word is *“value”*
Before you buy jewelry what do you check? Is it the Beauty alone?
That precious strength that he/she possesses, that when added to your own will give a product like Shawama so sweet. Your passion that aligns with his/her dreams just like bread and butter.
Wanting to go into a relationship should be on the basis of value from a goal oriented one!
So Bimpe, if you have found that guy of Value, what then should you do? How do you go about it?
*“A serious and better intimate relationship is built on a solid foundation of friendship”*
So, just make sure you try to connect with him till you guys become friends. At least you have asked him out also. How? You are now friends! And it is the best ask out for a start.
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