how long will you keep it

HOW LONG WILL I KEEP IT?
" when urges tells me that you need it; when friends lure me to come with them for fun with guys; when seduction comes; when I see porn pictures or video; when am are in need of money or job but the ones I see is attached with give and take; what did I say? How long will I say NO? When will I stop saying NO? HOW LONG WILL I KEEP IT"
 Having the thought of speaking to a teenager of 14yrs who was groaning in pain for her menses, i was inspired to speak, advice & enlighten her on; How long will she keep it. How long can you hold your affections? How long will you have the pride? How long will you block your hymen gate? How long will you prevent the plugging from a man? How long? How long?
Note: One of the joy in the pain of this menses is the VIRGINITY!!!.
I will like to relate this also to every upcoming youth (Teenager) and the Already Youth
  To The Teenager
Hello teenager, it's a good news to you that you are already a woman once your flow (menses) starts. Have you asked yourself how long will it take me to keep the Virginity?
 The state of virginity is being a virgin and virgin simply means someone who has never had sextual intercourse.
Have you started your menses at d age of 13, 14, 15yrs? Do you know how long it will cause you to wait and keep it; keep the sex; keep the kiss; keep the romance; keep the caress?
It might cause you 10, 12yrs etc depending on the time you get married. The waiting time is the price you are paying for your DIGNITY. It worth sacrificing those waiting years for because its your PRIDE.
NOTE: Ladies around you might have losed theirs, your sister or brother might tell you it not necessary, your friend's might tell you the same, but dear teenager your virginity is your pride. "Keep It For That Man"
 To The Youth
I will say a BIG WELDONE to the youth who are still striving to "Keep It", i mean their PRIDE & DIGNITY.
I have this goodnews for you; The years left for you to keep it is not up to the years you have being keeping it.
Please, fight the good fight of DIGNITY and still KEEP IT for that man. "It worth fighting for". And if any lady has lost her VIRGINITY due to whatever circumstances please dont lose your VIRTUE.
How do i keep my virtue?
Ask us on whatsapp. Thanks and God bless

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enough

ENOUGH!!!
 Hmmm... My ears are full of all criticism, discussions, excuses, arguments, debates on religion (most especially on churches, and pastors). Words like:
* In my church, ....
* Many pastors are ....
* The pastors wife of that church puts on ....
* Don't you know he is a member of ..... denomination.
 Little out of all i have heard are the ones above. Many have painted their church, pastors or religion God.
 By so doing, we keep on complaining on one thing or the other on a church, pastor etc. Some if not many have stop attending church because of many of what they have heard. Some are very relunctant in attending church worship. Many souls yarning secretely to observe thesame worship are no more ready due to the negative informations that they hear or eave drop. Even some people do thesame on the pulpit.
WAIT! Let me ask,
ARE WE STILL SERVING THESAME JESUS?
If yes, i wonder what is bringing the internal segregation of the same body. Why should i be restricted directly or indirectly from attending another church?
 Yes! I am not disputing the fact that many odd things are happening nowadays even in churches but being a true and real christian is firstly and primarily a personal relationship with God. That's the best solution we at TUMI can offer for this happenings (We are sure that the only song we can sing to the "gbedu" is just this!).
What you know about God is the real learnings.
All you need is a personal relationship with God.
Personal meditation of His word,
Personal dedication to the Lord,
Personal convictions within the lines of His word.
It's personal,
it's very personal,
it's absolutely PERSONAL!
And that's is the ETERNAL.
The primary is the personal relationship, fellowship with other Christians (not your church member) is the secondary.
For me, i am going to that point where i pick out the needful out of everything. Absolutely everything without segregations but i have a landmark to what i choose which is MY BIBLE!
Please do read 1 Timothy 5:22. James 1:27.

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conversation1

Can you take your time to read this conversation between a person and a tumite. You might find it helpful.
Feel free to share too

 Tumi: Good pm. Longest time o
Mr T: Yes oo
Eku enjoyment
Tumi: How is everything sir?
 Hmmm. Enjoyment ni yen o
Mr T: We tnk God o
I hope u are enjoying ur IT?!
Tumi: Yea.i choose to jare. And you nko?
Mr T: Partially
Tumi: Hmmm. So you rather choose to enjoy partially when you can choose to be over fully
Mr T: D tin is, am nt satisfied wit d job I'm into.
And besides d payment is nt encouraging
Tumi: Ehyah. So what's your moves now. Is there any plan? What is the job all about?
Mr T: At all. I will jxt manage it till d end. Itz teaching job
Tumi: Hmmm. You managing is not a good choice for me. Can I take you through some process for few minutes?
Mr T: Aiit. Go on
Tumi: alright.
Here is it:
Which organization do you wish to be that will make you satisfied?
Mr T: My discipline of course
Banking line or in any formal organization.
Tumi: Formal organization as in?
Mr T: Lyk office job
Tumi: Any office job?
 Sorry for asking too much questions o. This process requires me to know something. Until I am there, I will not stop asking questions. It really going help.
Mr T: Yes
Tumi: Why do you just want any office job? Besides that what subject do you take where you are now?
MrA T: Coz I believe I will be able to save some money b4 I finally go back to sch. m taking 5 subjects
 Commerce, account, social studies, business studies and civic education
Tumi: Wow.five!. That can be stressful o. Ehyah.
Mr T: Too stressful
Tumi: What makes you think that those office job will make you save
 Do you know you can actually get more satisfaction and savings on this job you than anywhere else you think you will if you can just build yourself up.
Mr T: D salary will be buoyant dan teaching job nw.
Really??
Tumi: From what you have said, I noticed that you never wanted teaching during your life time. You have many times condemned teaching. Am I right?
 Talk to me my battery is going. Am waiting
Mr T: Yap. Av tried dat. But itz jxt nt working
Tumi: Alright. That's where the problem starts from. Not the salary, nor office job.
Mr T: If u say so
Tumi: Tried what sir?
 Are you there?
Mr T: I min av tried getting d satisfaction buh itz nt working
Tumi: Ehyah. You trying to get satisfaction is not the starting point. I think you changing your motives about teaching is the beginning.
I do always love teaching. My friend left professional job for teaching. That place is the best place to be if only you have discovered your purpose and​ value.
While I was teaching, I was been paid #8000 and I so much enjoyed​ it. It got to a stage that I almost left my present work place just to go back to my teaching.
 The point is,
Get your motives about the work change
Try discover yourself. I bet it with you if you discover yourself, you will enjoy any job you are in because it's not the job that will give you satisfaction here, it will now be the fulfillment of your purpose. And during those times, you will be eager to communicate this to somebody which you as a teacher is the best place for that.
Why do you allow situations, common salary, office job to control you Ahan you discovering your purpose can be a greater Joy and happiness no matter the situation. Please find your voice.
Mind you, you choose to be like that. Everything is your choice
 Read this little piece:

*LOOK AT YOU!*
 *Many people discover purpose and die down their profession or making it lag behind while some are soaring in their profession without the search for their purpose.*
The question is:
*Why leaving profession behind due to discovery of purpose?*
Why fulfilled in profession but dead in purpose?
*It is purpose discovery that made:*
 1. Mathematics professor a pastor (pastor E.A Adeboye)
 2. architect a Bishop (Bishop Oyedepo)
 3. Accounting student a musician (Lillies praiz)
 4. Lawyer an artist (Funke Akindele)
5. building student a life coach (Dexterous) and many more people.
   It is good to be educated, to study a course at higher institution but that's not all about you. There is still something within you that need to be exposed to the world. You are more than that professional course!...(ask us for the full copy if you please.)
       
Tumi: Have a nice rest of today. I guess you are offline. We can talk some other times when you come online. I hope you do get my point.
The power is in your hands. It not anywhere. Not in that salary neither is it in that professional job.
Find your voice and you will see the good of everything. After all everything works together for our good. Whatever you find your hands doing, do it well!

Mr T: Tnkx for d advice nd tym.
 I really appreciate
Tumi: My pleasure sir. Good night

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conscienceless

Conscienceless!!!
 (Sigh), killing here and there. Kidnapping very rampant. Rape the new normals. Fraud, criminality and rituals all over. Let me ask this
             Where is their conscience?
 Imagine! beating, hitting hard a fellow human. That's very unimaginable to me.
 What where they thinking?
HERE WE GO
 PARENT! I am holding you responsible. Look at what your children are doing out there.
1. Didn't theh felt loved by you? or why are they so heartless? ...(sobs). Even if others break their heart, do you too?
2. Didn't you inspire them? Or what do you pour in their conscience?
 Train up your child the way he should grow:
* 'I am very poor'. That's not an excuse. Even the rich produce poor children. It's not only money. You have gat to pull the right resources together(Ask us @TUMI if you need some).
* 'I am a young nursing mother' stop regreting. You have one already so what you need do now is to give that child a better life so that whenever you see him/her. Make the joy of a grown wonderful baby of yours overshadow the regret!
 Please correct them while they are still young not until 'Ika kan o le wo idi won mo' as the Yoruba's will say.
I just wonder why a grown up man will be willing to have sex with a teenage girl. Shai!
 please, call those children of yours(be it biological or not) and water their dying compassion. Compass ion is that great weapon that errupt good things from within.
Take up the task please.
"If we have a world of ordinary people, extra ordinary things will happen to me" By Cobhams Asuquo
 Feel free to rebroadcast. Get it passed across to all parents.

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The artificial

The artificial!
"Instead of working towards being supernatural, you are busy going artificial destroying the natural. What!"
You are unique in your own way and in your skin color. Black is beautiful and unique if you can keep it!"
From the beginning of creation, we all knows that everything that God created was perfect and good but today why do we still have people who are not contented with their looks and this tends to bleach their skin to become white.
Bleachings is melanin inhibitor in case you don't know. I hear some people saying if you don't like your skin, you can change it but that's not true. In as much you cannot choose it from the beginning, why changing it? It destroys the body. Your skin color is beautiful. You are unique in your own way. Why copy others.
    In some part of the world, it is believed that light and paled skinned people portray beauty, richness and success as well while dark people people are considered below standard. Even young ones nowadays also prefer skin whitening products so that they can become good looking without thinking about the implication of their actions. Who told you that you aren't beautiful in that your natural skin?
   There are many harmful effects of skin whitening or bleaching which includes:
* Dark gray spot
* Skin cancer
* Acne
* Swelling of the skin
* Thinning of the skin
* Cataracts
* Stretch mark
* Setting down of face, chest, and stomach
* Increase in appetite and waist gain
* Kidney damage
* Asthma
* Liver damage
* Birth problem
Why do you still bleach when you know your black skin is beautiful. God has given you a perfect skin color, maintain it and never add to it so that you'll not encounter its negative effect....
" Romans 12:1 AMP:I appeal to you therefore, brethren, and beg of you in view of [all] the mercies of God, to make a decisive dedication of your bodies [presenting all your members and faculties] as a living sacrifice, holy (devoted, consecrated) and well pleasing to God, which is your reasonable (rational, intelligent) service and spiritual worship."
    I will advice you to be unique and different positively in your skin rather than join multitudes. Keep your skin natural and super beautiful.
Thanks and God bless.

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