My Mom won’t just understand!

My Mom won’t just understand!

My Dad may still want to consider hearing me out to my last word but you see my Mom, she won’t even allow me to land before she lands on me.

Am i painting your picture right now or yours is the reverse? Let me tell you my own story

   There was a time my Mum (Iya Micheal) won’t just understand that i haven’t started making that much before she concludes that i am stingy and not considerate. She will lash me with words and i will be like “Mom i am doing this job not cos of the money but...” and she will be like “don’t tell me that...”

It eats deep in my mind and always digs out sorrow because she has really done a lot for me and i know it’s very important i do more but not in this job. How do i make her understand?

What’s your own case? I know a lot of us hates the overt protectiveness aspect of them. You are like “Mom, it’s called cropped top! Mom, it’s just a friend’s birthday”
 
For me, i have always enjoyed freedom against over protection.

In your head right now, you might be saying “My mom/dad won’t just allow me” but let me shock you that it is possible she will if you can consciously create that mindset in him/her.

Parents will always put restrictions on children (or switch on the overprotection mode) until they now have a "confident mindset" that that child now does the right things intentionally.
When they perceive that you now have that independent mindset- a mindset that cannot be easily influenced.

How will they know?
They are constantly testing you. Besides, your relationship with him/her (or parent) is the greatest test of all time.

How much are you working towards creating the impression that you are now mature enough instead of saying that orally when in an argument with him/her (your parents)?

If your parents can get that mindset about you, you have just unlocked the freedom you want.

Well, i know it doesn’t work with all parents. Maybe yours is one but it is not an excuse not to be mature enough. Improve how you respond in crises; when angry; about love; about your career and your decision making most importantly.

Thanks for reading

Oh! Less i forget, to the parents reading this, i am glad you are. Please, kindly be part of the development process of your child. That “Overprotection” isn’t really working- it’s actually doing a bad thing to us. Allow him/her once a while but provide a guide to curb excesses. It’s not easy but you can always work it out- at least for the confidence of your child.

To every son and daughter reading this, you too will soon be a parent. Most times, we become what we hated if not cautiously uninstalled.

Now, i think my Mom will understand!

If you find it comfortable, send to your parents/children/friends/family
Thanks 

OMAA
Tumihub’s publication (WhatsApp us now on 09051911988)

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The quick fix magic

The quick fix magic!

Read this in 10minutes and make 1million naira in 10days! Shall we?

With the rate money is needed in this age, i know just like me, you couldn’t resist this post. There are lots of things that you need to accomplish as soon as possible. Let’s run through what your needs might be at the moment:

  I really want to get some clothes and snickers so i can just upgrade my wears. I have to look good for myself and my spouse so that S/he doesn’t leave me behind in search of greener pasture. In fact, i have to have enough to take some of his/her responsibilities especially on special days like his/her birthday and Valentine’s Day.

 I really want to level up with my friends and the trends in society. I should as well be posting on twitter with the tag ‘twitter for iPhone 11’ display if possible.

Oh! Less i forget, i need to get my room classic. My room needs to look presentable and conducive enough especially for my visitors because i will frequently have visitors as from now.

Don’t let me bore you with so many suggestions. It's possible you have your "wants" playing around in your mind right now. If you don’t, just imagine having a free 1million naira in your bank account right now, what are the lists of things you will use it for?

Perceived needs aren’t far from this generation especially when there is easy access to a lot of information- the internet.

 Let me see if i can quickly read your mind in a minute:
your hunger for money/getting business is because you have urgent needs to fix with the money, right?

That is why it is not far from people to quickly raise their standard anytime there is an increment in the inflow of income for you. You simply say “I can’t wash my clothes myself again. I have moved past that level” and probably ends with “because there is no time”

   If this is the mindset you still have at the moment, do you know what uses to happen to spoons at home? Have you ever wondered what could get spoons missing until you are left with one or nothing?

It’s 99% possible that you will experience the same in your financial life if care is not taken.

What kind of mindset do you now need? Connect with me on WhatsApp (09051911988) as i unveil some of my experience and discovery with you.

Feel free to share. I will be glad if you do.

Thanks
Written by: OMAA
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My dream woke me up

My dream woke me up!

It is just January 2nd and I am supposed to be on holiday till 6th but my dream woke me up this early when I planned to have as much sleep as possible before going back to work. I didn’t get up very happy because what I was dreaming about wasn’t even my business in the first place. I wasn’t the main character in the dream and not even someone I was close to was in the dream. The faces in the dream were people I haven’t spoken with for a while. Besides, I am still very much angry because this I am writing too is not really about me but about YOU! Now let me get at it so that i can go back to my sleep.

Sometimes, I end up pitying myself! Why do I have to come to this world? Why can’t I just be something else - why human?

The major reason I always have the thought is nothing else but as a result of the gravity of CONFUSION that overwhelms me about a subject matter at that time. Let me give an instance:

I have heard from different celebrities, motivational speakers and even mentors that it’s best i put more of my effort into getting rich first before trying to fulfill a purpose. When I heard their reasons, it sounds so true and real that I wanted to drop all the dreams i have been having on purpose fulfillment. But then, the next day, I started reading a book by another achiever whose book is more like a success story and all he was telling me in his book is that there is nothing better than fulfilling purpose from the onset. I was so angry that he was saying Gibberish until I read his reasons and success story.  Now I am in the middle. Which of these is correct? Which one are you holding on to now?

This is one out of the millions of my confusion but I think I have gotten the right answer to this particular one and I will like to share with you. I just hope I won’t be confusing you too — Smiles.

MONEY is an important factor to fulfill a purpose — Right? At the same time, fulfilling purpose is an important factor for easy access to satisfaction and more money. This is another CONFUSION — Right? I have an idea.   

What if you discover purpose, begin to work on it and at the same time ensure you are in search of that thing you are PASSIONATE about that can be a source of income for you, will it be nice?

Are you still more confused as I am too? Let me quickly have another pity on myself and on you reading this.

@segalinks on twitter said “when you find yourself in a country going through what Nigeria is going through, you don’t chase money. You find yourself.”

Maybe you need to find yourself to get out of a lot of CONFUSIONS like this. 

WAIT! Just before you go, can we connect? Especially if you are a small/medium scale entrepreneur, or you have a brand you are trying to build or you want to start a brand or you don’t even know who you are and what you want because I think I want to go on the journey with you together. I love to see your brand become irresistible!

 Check Consultant_OMAA out using https://linktr.ee/Consultant_OMAA

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Alternative ways to reach me are:

1. Message @Tumihub on all social handles

2. Message @consultantomaa on all social handles

3. Call/SMS 08162867982

4. Facebook: Quadri Micheal

5. Mail: Consultantomaa@gmail.com

Please note that i prefer WhatsApp but it doesn't mean i don't communicate on these social handles too

Eagerly waiting for you.

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ConsultantOmaa price list

Consultant_OMAA price list

As you read through the prices, don't be quick to run away or tell me "I will get back to you" . Because i long to see your brand become irresistible, here is another offer:

Probably you don't have the money or you don't have up to that; so what else can you pay with aside money? I am open to deals! In fact, let's have a free trial session first. Quickly connect with me on WhatsApp (09051911988)

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1. Bronze: Which goes for a #5,000 only.

Subscribing for bronze means you have an option to choose only one out of our packages excluding CAC registration.

You either choose a new brand, brand review, brand upgrade, business proposal, etc. You can only choose one package

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Subscribing to this means you will get to choose one package + a free special package. To crown it up is a VIP attention of Consultant_OMAA.

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Subscribing to this means you get to choose a package + 2 free special packages. And also a VVIP attention of Consultant_OMAA

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Subscribing to this means you will get to choose one package + 4 free special packages. And also VVVIP attention of Consultant_OMAA


I promise you something; if your brand isn't changing for good after subscribing to any of these packages, i will refund your money and also make sure i lookout for the problem and solve it for you free of charge. 
This condition only applies to those that are passionate about their brand. 

If i can grow my brand (Tumihub) and i haven't spent up to 5k on it since inception, how much more you that is really ready to pay.

Ask a question about what you don't understand.

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