Is this a fallacy?

Is this a fallacy?

At the end of this little piece, you should be able to stop being extremely:  jealous, greedy and also every other form of self-gratification.

Let me tell you a story about myself and my cousin who happened to be a twin. The pursue of higher education parted the nonidentical twin while at the same time brought myself and Kenny together and we have always been together till now. Most importantly, it makes us behave like twin in many things.

We applied for different course of study but one thing led to the other which made us end up in the same course. As if that is not enough, our grades at every course look almost the same even till now. I have also heard people said that i just said exactly the same thing my cousin said. Then i wonder just like my dad said that “are we now artificial twin?”

But then, the approaches we apply in many of those things are very different and ‘unique’ to our being. For example, I start reading my books as soon as the semester begins while he reads few days to exams or test. If different approach can produce almost the same result, what then is the point?

The point is 

Why should i be seeking the downfall or degradation of someone for me to rise because of this ‘competition’?

If everyone is different and specially made, why should we then compete? Even if, why back-stabbing type?

Dictionary explains that “To compete is to contend. Rather put to be in battle or in a rivalry with another for the same thing.”

If you still find yourself competing unnecessarily, check if you are getting things right.

On your way through your uniqueness lie the ingredients for the legend in you. Not in competition!

It means if i have identify my uniqueness, then all I need do is to build on it and never to compete.

Lastly, Wallace D. Wattles said that:

You must get rid of the thought of competition. You are to create, not to compete for what is already created!    

 
Uniqueness or competition-which one will you work on?

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Money is everything: yes or no?

Money is everything: yes or no?

Answer that question before you go on to imbibe this piece...

If  Dangote ask that:
"But why is everyone crying of money?" What will you say?

If he further say that "if money is a fruit, aren't we going to first plant and nurture the tree until it produces in its season?" What will you say?

"Don't compare him with us. Don't mind him he has money to start up. He has rich parents..."  Will you rather gossip that?

Listen

 Don't let that one excuse above deprive you of what you can achieve...

It's not money to start up that really matters. Rather, It is your ability to think. Think! Think again.
When you think, you plan, strategize, plan, strategize again until you acquire that strength to start.
Then you take action; you do it, you start; Yes! Start with the little you have....

As a builder, progressive work sometimes is of great advantage...  Starting with nothing can give you a stronger foundation and progressive development.

How old are you? You are created to impact this world. If you have wasted these years, will you still waste the remaining?
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Who told you life is not beautiful?

“Micheal! Today, I disown you and i mean it” my mum-Iya Micheal-said angrily on that morning, making my sister a witness. She said a lot more and left in anger.

Also very angry, I left to my room-not too bothered about what she said- and was about to sleep. But my sister kept crying. She asked me series of questions like ‘Micheal, what did you do to her? Do you have another mother? Do you want to kill her?” but I was so angry that I couldn’t say a word.

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Few days ago, I and Iya Micheal slept together on the same bed and so, I flashed back to those times. All i could ask is “what has happened to me in a space of time?”

If your view of life is on the extreme negative like i do those times, you are actually depriving yourself of the purpose of your life. Get out of that dungeon!

 I started enjoying my life the day ifallacy
t my deepest backstabbing secrets to a close friend of mine especially the day i discover my passion. If you ask me, i will tell you that LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.

I always feel more satisfied when i am fulfilling purpose, achieving what i have passion for and when i help others in the best way i can.
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An anonymous said:

Unless we share someone else’s pain, we can never relieve ourselves of pain.

Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can.

Hate cannot drive out hate,s only love can.

Find every reason to live and not to ‘be a stiff’
Find every reason to give and not to always receive
Find every reason to help not to beef
Fine every reason to leave a legacy not a fallacy

Discovering your identity is the key to fulfilling your destiny! By Sunday Adelaja

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YA Campaign

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It is divided into two parts:

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*YA campaigner:* these include you, me and everyone that will join this campaign to start celebrating great talents and efforts rather than celebrating mediocrities. This is by advertising them on all your social media platforms and also tells a friend to do so!

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Why am I shy?

Why am i Shy?

Like seriously, i don’t understand myself anymore.

Why will i be the talking and playful one somewhere and later will be the gentle and shy one in another time even with the same set of people?

Although, i agree with the fact that some times, i did that consciously but most of the time, i am not the one in control and if i try to switch deliberately, it is really hard for me.

Who then is controlling me?

Or should i say i am both an introvert and extrovert? Or is everything about temperament not true?

 Please tell me something!

Let me tell you this-My opinion though.

There are unlimited factors about this. The factors are unique to every individual and of which is always being communicated to us in our within-If only you can listen to yourself, you will point them out.

“What you took there” and “what you met there” are the major classifications to best explain my point-I stand to be corrected.

Your mentality, expectation, state of mind, and motivation are very significant explanation of “what you took there”. If on getting there, you were faced with what you never expected or budgeted for, it can be a factor to describe “what you met there”.

As for me, i have developed the habit to always tell whoever i am with if i am shy or not and that works for me most times-you can always try that too.

Just like fear, shyness is a self sabotaging belief which require more of mental reorientation.

It's not a bad thing to be shy, but will be when you remain in its tunnel and fail to come out.

So if it it's a mental or mindset issue, then get out there to look for materials that talks about it-ask me if you need one.

Anyways, be bold in your shyness!

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Is it your change?

Is it your change? How can you tell me to change?

Enough is enough!

If all I always get from someone I call my intimate friend is complains, blames and rejection, then what am I doing in there? 

If after telling you all my secrets, wrongs and my excesses, you go on to worsen the case with a whole lot of sabotage, what then am I still doing with you? 

If I can no longer trust telling you my deepest secrets due to your harmful response and reaction, then what am I still waiting for?
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Someone will then say that “if I am your friend, I should be able to tell you the truth and nothing less!”

Yes! That is absolutely right; but then “how you tell” matters more than “what you tell”

If I must tell my wife to tidy the house, why can’t I do that by firstly; tidy the house myself for few times, then go on to tell her to help me out with it:
Something like “dear, i will be glad if you can help me out with taking care of the house and i will surely support you with it too.” Rather than exercising authority in an inappropriate manner.
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Besides, “your telling” alone does not guarantee that that person will change.

 The changing of a person is not in the quantity or quality of the words spoken to him, nor the gravity of how it is spoken but rather on his personal conviction!

Aspire always to convince a person through influence and your consistent prayers for him.
 Let him see love and discipline from your eyes. Let him learn love more from your life.
 Influence gently. Influence steadily. Influence systematically and also influence by example.

Be the example and not the boss!  

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