Why am I shy?

Why am i Shy?

Like seriously, i don’t understand myself anymore.

Why will i be the talking and playful one somewhere and later will be the gentle and shy one in another time even with the same set of people?

Although, i agree with the fact that some times, i did that consciously but most of the time, i am not the one in control and if i try to switch deliberately, it is really hard for me.

Who then is controlling me?

Or should i say i am both an introvert and extrovert? Or is everything about temperament not true?

 Please tell me something!

Let me tell you this-My opinion though.

There are unlimited factors about this. The factors are unique to every individual and of which is always being communicated to us in our within-If only you can listen to yourself, you will point them out.

“What you took there” and “what you met there” are the major classifications to best explain my point-I stand to be corrected.

Your mentality, expectation, state of mind, and motivation are very significant explanation of “what you took there”. If on getting there, you were faced with what you never expected or budgeted for, it can be a factor to describe “what you met there”.

As for me, i have developed the habit to always tell whoever i am with if i am shy or not and that works for me most times-you can always try that too.

Just like fear, shyness is a self sabotaging belief which require more of mental reorientation.

It's not a bad thing to be shy, but will be when you remain in its tunnel and fail to come out.

So if it it's a mental or mindset issue, then get out there to look for materials that talks about it-ask me if you need one.

Anyways, be bold in your shyness!