The love of a friend

The love of a close friend!

“I have a feeling that you are hiding something from me.... why are you sounding like this? What’s wrong with you?.... You said you wanted to tell me something, what’s that?.....   No! No! Don’t tell me later, please tell me now; please na.... why are you doing like this? So you have started keeping secrets?”

I know you must have at one time or the other heard and also said this to a close friend or even to your ‘spouse’ and that’s why I’ve come to tell you what I feel is of great importance to be known by you and also to tell our close friends/spouses.

Friends will always be friends unless they are not  good - same as spouses; likewise enemies too. There is always this caring part of them and of course, they will want to know what’s going on with you. So if you are going through a tough time or there’s something you don’t want them to know about because of the reason(s) best known to you, please try as much as possible to avoid giving them an impression that will make them detect what you are trying to hide from them.

Yes! It’s not easy to hide it totally without them detecting but please try your best because they will surely be on your neck until you spill it out or get disappointed and stop disturbing you about it after so much failed trials of which not telling them is a ‘gradual defect’ to that relationship. So it will be best to restrict them from detecting.

But then.....
I’ve experienced it severally and I can categorical tell you that ‘a problem shared is a problem half solved’ and in fact, sharing on its own is a healing process not to talk of the response from such friend- that’s why you need to get someone you can always trust as a friend.

I know you might have been betrayed by some people but trust me, there are still good, loving, selfless and trusted people out there- Tumihub is one of them.
One thing I know for sure is that ‘we all want to be loved and cared for; we all want attention. So wouldn’t it be better if you get yourself a friend you can trust and can share anything with without boundaries?

OMAA

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What are friends for? Episode 15

What are friends for?

Episode 15

Her one click landed her in a YouTube page filled with erotic videos. “I have promised myself not to watch this again and I will not because I don’t want to stir up my sexual drive again this time. I have stopped sex and porn” this thought was busy sounding loud in Rita’s ear but she was already getting curious to see the content.
She paused and couldn’t press anything then she saw a caption that caught  attention "a banana shifting womb" and so her curiosity led her to check it out. A black background popped out with white line rotating at the center.

It took a long time in that spot and Rita almost lost interest only for a 2D cartoon to begin its play; a skip icon attached with it. She figured out it was a sixty seconds ad and so she quickly clicked on the skip icon.

Just about when the video started with introduction of what the video is about, an SMS popped in on Rita's phone but she didn't pay attention it then, the video will not still play. So she decided to check the message and realized she had exhausted her data. She was disappointed and at the same time was happy she wasn't able to watch the video. "Thank God I escaped this temptation." She said as she closed the YouTube channel.

She went straight to bed to sleep but her phone rang. "Hello! Hello Rita. It's me Nath, I am presently in a recording studio around your area. I don't know if you can come around because i really want to see your face."

Rita was surprised. She jumped on her feet and get dressed to see Nath. It took her thirty minutes to get dressed after which she left for the studio.

Nath was called by the music producer to come record the song he had been disturbing him about but someone else was on the mic which meant he had to wait some few hours. He held his note pad on his left hand while his pen was in his right hand. He was shaking his head in all directions as the beat filters from his headset into his ears. At intervals, he murmurs words and hum the lyrics on his note pad. Other times, he will stop shaking his head and will start to chew the cover of his pen while his eyes look straight to the sky like he was focusing on something only for him to suddenly remove the pen from his mouth and start to write in his note pad. He will sing along with the tune using the just written lyrics then stop at some point to correct something before he continued singing.

Nath continued this as he sat at the waiting room of the studio which was just behind the entrance into the studio. The studio itself is on the first floor which prohibits you to knock or come in if not called upon because if you do, you will be sent out of the studio. Starting from the entrance, the illumination of the studio is so dim that you hardly see the colour of your clothes. The lamp used are multicoloured without white in it. It all together emits a cool sensation especially with the fact that it’s sound insulated- there are no windows and as soon as you shut the entrance door, the silence is almost a hundred percent.

Rita alighted from a bike as she looks around. She dug her left hand into her back pocket to bring out a two hundred naira note and gave it to the bike man as she operates her phone with her right hands. ‘I am sorry for using my left hand’ she said. The bike man said ‘no froblem’ in his Hausa influenced pronunciation and left to pick the lady standing at the other side of the road.

Rita tried calling Nath on phone but the network won’t allow. She looked round and asked for the studio around. She was directed and then as she walked few distance, she saw the studio and walked towards it. Immediately she got close to the entrance, Nath sighted her and rushed out to welcome her. He hugged her so tight and lifted her up too while Rita was screaming instead. He didn’t take his hands off her waist and at some points, he pecked her. ‘Bae, I’m sorry I didn’t reach out to you but I miss you so much. Thanks for your wishes yesterday and I also appreciate your coming today’ he said as he looked into her eyes.

Rita look away and was trying to free herself from him but he wasn’t going to allow. ‘So, it’s true? Because I just confirmed it. Why must you get drunk because you want to record a song? A song that you want sane human to listen to is what you are writing in an abnormal state?’ as she was saying this, Nath let loose of her and was about changing the topic. ‘you better don’t join others. Just because most musicians do that doesn’t mean you should. Be different and sing good music’ she finally concluded.

“Thanks, so much bae. I will work on what you said” Nath said as they walk into the studio. He saluted the guys sitting close to the entrance and walked in with Rita to the space allocated for guests- they both sat on a cushion chair. Rita started pouring out her mind of how much she was angry with Nath and Pam. She said a whole lot and it was already getting boring to Nath so he decided to change the topic and he started with tickling her. “but I said I’m sorry. Let’s just forget about this and talk about something else, please!” Nath said following the tickle but Rita insisted that she must finish what she was saying.

Because Nath didn't want her to, he kept tickling her until she started laughing hard ‘Nath stop. Ok please stop it. I will not talk again’ she said but Nath will not answer. She took the step to bite him in his chest but Nath tried to stop that by pushing her away only for him to push her in her breast. So, she also stopped the attempt to bit him. “Nath your rough play is too much. See how you have made my cloth stained.” She said as she breathes heavily but, in her mind, she was already aroused. It was as if somebody just switched on her sex drive.

Nath look away and was also breathing heavily. He also started feeling aroused which is a normal thing for him to always feel that way any time he is in the studio- he always has a girl with him in the studio which sex is always the main event between them either before he records or after he does while sometimes, the both times but he wasn’t having it mind to do that with his friend Rita.

To curb his sensations, he excused himself and told her he wanted to go see the music producer. He left and went outside to have a breathing space and clear his head of the emotions. He took about few minutes and came back. Rita told him she wanted to urinate and he led her to the toilet but it was dark around the toilet. Rita was scared and asked Nath not to go far which he did.

After few minutes, she came out. Nath was sweating because the air-condition didn’t get to the toilet corridor where he stayed. “eehyah, I’m sorry for making you to sweat like this” Rita said as she walks closer to where he was standing. Nath excused her so that she could be at the front while he walked behind.   

As they were going out, Rita was busy talking as she adjusts her pants but Nath isn’t listening until they almost get out of the toilet, then Nath suddenly dragged Rita to himself and kissed her.

She was shocked and she remained stagnant. He went further to……

Watch out for the next episode

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Our mother's DNA

OUR MOTHERS’ DNA

“FINISHED? But our guests are not more than five hundred and if I recollect correctly, about three thousand meats were fried yesterday. I don’t believe that!” the bride left to continue dancing with her husband.

 But, how come meats /food are not always enough in parties?

But then, I also read about the story of Jesus’ disciples that fed a lot of people with the miraculous five loaves of bread and two fishes and still had so many remnants of not just bread but also fishes too. Come to think of it, if it were our mothers or our ladies, don’t you think there will be a problem? I’m still looking for that party where it will be only guys/our fathers to see if we will still have the ‘meat scarcity syndrome’

‘The eagle’s eye is the best way to describe our mothers’ eyes in any party and just like the eagle, they most times never miss their targets especially when they have to fill the tank they brought which would be under their table or rightly placed in their fancy big bags.

“The party is not interesting and I almost regret coming. It’s not even well planned at all.”

You will also hear this from the group of mothers who couldn’t meet their target for the party- YES! Our mothers are better analyst; even better than the football analyst whenever there is a minimum of two of them together.   
 
Even my mum ‘Iya Michael’ is also an expert because I’m always rest assured of party food any time she informs me that she’s going to a party especially when we are going together, she’s always on my neck until I get my own food which most times always get me angry because of the attention focused on us as she performs her magic to get me my food, but I love her still #Smiles#.

Our current ladies, I hope you are big girl enough not to follow their footsteps- at least take more of the fathers’ DNA.   

My point!

Favouritism is a major factor that needs to be eradicated for a society to be fair and just or at least be mitigated if it can’t totally be eradicated.

Join me in looking through the cause of almost all the problems you can ever think of and see if you wouldn’t find either selfishness or favouritism as the leading factor.

Yes! Favouritism is sometimes unavoidable but I have seen people who are intentional enough to reduce it to the barest minimum and for me, I’m working towards that too.

Don’t you think it’s time we began the change we desire, first by removing the log in our own eyes - favouritism and selfishness? Then we can think of what next!

Before you unfairly favour someone because of your position to make such decision at that moment, remember how you feel when you finally get to a party after going through traffic congestion while starving and being cashless, only for you to be informed that there is no more meat/food, and you get to still see some selected people given food even at that instance when you’re being told otherwise. 

OMAA™

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The brand Tumihub

The brand Tumihub

DNA: maybe you don’t know that you cycle through three worlds every day. These worlds are THE EARTH, YOUR MIND, and THE ONLINE WORLD- the internet.
Tumihub is a linking point that gives a better regulation of these worlds. How?

PROMISE: the how

1. We are the listening ear you can always share what your mind is thinking with anytime and is always ready to give the help needed.
2. We are always on time to give you the information you needed/asked for and also giving updates as regards the happenings in the online world.
3. We just want to ensure that you are the best you can be on the earth you live in
WE ARE THE 3 IN 1

VALUES: We believe that everyone is unique and can succeed in everything they do in as much they are in their right conscience.
To Tumihub, you are more than what you think you are!!!

Vision: We don’t just want to get by; we want to live well; but our foremost effort is to help others live well.

1. Easily accessible both online and offline
2. Building an offline community to accommodate thousands of people where everything is free- fulfilling our DNA.
3. Having at least a tumite in every society of the world, living intentionally and with a very good conscience.

Drivers: what are you looking for? Are you looking for:
1. Listening ear, acceptance, fun, a platform to explore, a family, expression, or a platform to showcase?
2. Inspiration, motivation, advice, counseling, or intentional contents- not just anyhow
w content?
3. Career opportunity or a spouse?
4. Even if you aren’t looking for anything or you don’t know what you are looking for,
Tumihub is a better option you can always trust.

Personality: listens, engage and serves without barrier.

Touchpoint: 
1. Every member is a shareholder.
2. Two-way communication- constantly engaging the audience.
3. Every voice is very important.

Tumihub is the free mode of Consultant_OMAA

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Am I not a human being too?

Am I not a human being too?

I have not come for anybody this time but I’ve come for your mentality! Yes you!

Why will you stereotype human ? That person is first a human before S/he got the attribute you are reverencing to and no matter the level of attainment that person must have gained, he’s still a human and there’s no doubt about that.

If you care to know what I’m talking about, then let me tell you my story;

There are several times I have had people accused me that they were disappointed because I did some certain things, they didn’t expect me to do. I must confess that I appreciate your sincerity and love for me because if not that, you won’t even bother to tell me about it but like I said, I have not come for you, I have come for the mentality. 

I have heard people say “a whole you? How will you put up a picture of yours without having clothes on ?” and I am like so I cannot post my beach picture and what does that have to do with who I am? So, because he is religious leader, he has to be perfect? Or because S/he is a highly respected person, S/he can’t get angry?”

Let me clear the doubt you might be having right now by saying that I really do understand that ‘to whom much is given, much is also expected’ and that it is a normal thing for people to place some sort of high expectations on some people but please there are certain things that I think we aren’t looking into before we make our judgement.

Actually, posting pictures of a nice time in beach isn't bad. At least to show your circle of influence that you also encourage having a nice time. In fact, there are times I do some things just because I want people to feel that sense of belonging- I wanted a platform where I'll be easily accessible. Some times, I just wanted to show that I am a human that want to live a normal life like every other persons.

After all, if it's not a bad thing, then why judge your stereotype?

"He's high profile person and I didn't expect him to do that sort of thing" if this is you, can you as well look at it that the person you are talking about is also a human like you.

I see some people who took the wrong path because they concluded that "If someone that's respected can do this, why can't I?" But i want to ask, "Is that person not a human being too?"

So why choose to follow his/her wrong path?

OMAA™

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