The love of a friend

The love of a close friend!

“I have a feeling that you are hiding something from me.... why are you sounding like this? What’s wrong with you?.... You said you wanted to tell me something, what’s that?.....   No! No! Don’t tell me later, please tell me now; please na.... why are you doing like this? So you have started keeping secrets?”

I know you must have at one time or the other heard and also said this to a close friend or even to your ‘spouse’ and that’s why I’ve come to tell you what I feel is of great importance to be known by you and also to tell our close friends/spouses.

Friends will always be friends unless they are not  good - same as spouses; likewise enemies too. There is always this caring part of them and of course, they will want to know what’s going on with you. So if you are going through a tough time or there’s something you don’t want them to know about because of the reason(s) best known to you, please try as much as possible to avoid giving them an impression that will make them detect what you are trying to hide from them.

Yes! It’s not easy to hide it totally without them detecting but please try your best because they will surely be on your neck until you spill it out or get disappointed and stop disturbing you about it after so much failed trials of which not telling them is a ‘gradual defect’ to that relationship. So it will be best to restrict them from detecting.

But then.....
I’ve experienced it severally and I can categorical tell you that ‘a problem shared is a problem half solved’ and in fact, sharing on its own is a healing process not to talk of the response from such friend- that’s why you need to get someone you can always trust as a friend.

I know you might have been betrayed by some people but trust me, there are still good, loving, selfless and trusted people out there- Tumihub is one of them.
One thing I know for sure is that ‘we all want to be loved and cared for; we all want attention. So wouldn’t it be better if you get yourself a friend you can trust and can share anything with without boundaries?

OMAA

Tumihub