Letter to the celebrities

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Letter to the celebrities

Don’t look too far thinking you are not one- Yes! Don’t conclude that you aren’t part of the celebrities. Why?   

Few days ago, I stumbled on a trend on twitter where one Pastor Mrs precisely said that “we all are guilty of the wrongs in our country. All of us. No one is exempted.” While replying to the post I said “The word ‘guilty’ has over qualified the message you are trying to relay to us. What if you say ‘as long as you are a Nigerian, you are an inclusive factor to the state of the country’ either good or bad.”   

Whether it is a light from a candle, torch, halogen lamps, sun or even from a wristband, light is light and its effect cannot be hidden. I believe you are a celebrity to your circle of influence.

Also, few days ago, Instagram released a list of worth of some of the users of their social media and what their cost for hosting a single ad is. ‘Davido’ who happened to be the first in Nigeria; second in Africa and 38th in the world, worths 36million naira to advertise for one brand- just once and that’s only on Instagram.  I immediately checked his profile and realised he had 11.8million followers. That is the monetary value of the influence he alone has on Instagram.

Based on this fact and with what you too can see “do you think we still have morals in our society or we only have examples from celebrities while others follow? Don’t you think celebrities are the lifestyle of this generation- Maybe not to everyone but majority won’t be an exaggeration especially the innocent young lads and the ones unborn?

My point

 Gone are those days where the focus is more on ‘enriched career and values’ over money.

Most of the times, you always paint pictures of yourself living an almost perfect life-flaunting the foreign currencies without showing the fact that you also worked hard for it. 

The most deadly part is your philosophy that has eaten deep and gained a solid foundation in every youth. You choose to always say either in words or by action that “I just want to happily live my life; careless about anything or anyone” and that’s what everyone has been doing too- especially the fraudsters who are already dominating. Then we go on to blame only the government because they won’t stop stealing our money but we've failed to blame you too who is stealing our morals, shifting our focus to looking for ways to get money by all means- any means.

Now take a look at what you have turned the society into with your examples. How can you take over the only torch we have only for you to point it to your selfish direction? 

Just one last question for you and I am done. “WHAT REALLY IS THE MESSAGE YOU HAVE BEEN PASSING AS A CELEBRITY?”
 
OMAA
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What are friends for? Episode 16

What are friends for?

Episode 16

She was shocked and remained stagnant. He went further to squeeze her buttocks, bent low to lick her laps. Rita immediately developed more sensation, feeling weightless at the moment. She finally reciprocated by touching his head. 

They spent quality time having oral sex until Nath’s phone rang- it was a call from the music producer announcing he was ready for him. And just like he was used to it, all his sensation and urges diminished immediately and he was ready to dress up but Rita’s clit is still very much activated and wouldn’t let go easily. Nath looked for a way to stop and quickly dress up to go meet the producer leaving her in the toilet’s lobby.

Rita dressed up and just like as if she was relieved of a charm, it dawn on her that she had broken the promise she had made to herself immediately, she leaned her back on the wall and dragged it down until she sat on the floor. She covered her face with her two hands and moved it downward until the tip of her hand touch the holes of her nose. She then supported her nose with her fists joined together as she looked straight towards the wall opposite her; tears rolled out “Rita! Why did you get yourself into this again? I thought you overcame few years ago but how come this happened? But you have resisted a greater temptation, why this one again? Who’s at fault for what happened- I or him? Or was I giving him the wrong signals? Is it because I asked him to wait for me while I urinate- or how come he got the gut to make a move with  someone he called his friend?” she wept and cried out loud. She said to herself ‘why didn’t you stop him at first? Why? Now see what you’ve gotten yourself into.’ 

She drags her buttocks slightly on the tiles as she moves towards the edge where two walls meet; stretched her legs and lean her back on a wall with her head resting on the other wall; then finally crossed her hands around her chest with her eyes focusing on nothing.

After some minutes in that position, she heard giggles of a lady walking towards her. She got up quickly, cleaned her face and adjusted her clothes to give an impression that she just finish using the toilet. She looked towards the lady and was surprised to see guy behind her. Rita greeted and left and she walks away from them, she heard giggles again and it was obvious that the guy was tickling her.
“Oh! No wonder he made the move. So this is not just a toilet?” she said as she walked out of the studio without minding the faces that were staring at her- people that knew what has happened.She left for home, switched off her phone and went straight to her room to sleep.

  “Hello! O boy our school is now mad. You won’t believe that they asked us to resume next week and also gave us only two weeks to pay our school fee. How on earth will they do that?”  Pam called Nath to inform him about the latest news he read on the school site and asked him to tell Rita too because he tried her number but was switched off. Nath couldn’t pay much attention to what he said because he was already recording- he could only pick the calls because the music producer paused to use the gent and since Pam had called more than five times.

Around 10pm, they stopped recording and concluded that they will meet again in five days time. The music producer asked for his money; Nath dipped his right hand into his pocket to remove the money and said “Beatey! You won’t believe that this money I’m about to give you is my school fee and my friend just called me that we are to pay in two weeks time but I’m expecting money from someone by next week; I’ll use it to pay for my school fee. God should just see our hustle and let this song blow.” He left for home.

Two days after Pam called Nath, he left for school to pay his school fee. Though he can as well pay online but he is scared of doing mistakes that can make him loose the money. He informed Nath before he left but Nath wasn’t ready to leave home until he gets the money he’s expecting to pay his school fee. Pam called Rita to inform her too. Since she was just hearing for the first time, she couldn’t tell when she will be going to school but Pam begged her to come early so that she can always keep his company since Nath is not coming anytime soon.

Exactly one week remaining for payment of their school fee, Rita resumed. This time, she went straight to her hostel to clean it up and dropped her luggage. Thereafter, she went ahead to pay her school fee and her faculty dues. For two days, she didn’t go t see Pam neither did she call him until Pam met her in school after they received a lecture together. He accused her but she tried avoid the discussion. Pam was angry and left in annoyance.
Rita felt guilty and decided to go see him in the evening which she did but didn’t meet him at home. She dipped two fingers into a hole around the entrance to get the key to the room to wait for Pam to come back. While waiting, she was hungry, so she cooked and just about the time she wanted to eat, Pam arrived. He was also very happy to see food since he has been starving. After exchanging pleasantries slightly with Rita, he went straight to the pot to take his food
“Just for you to know Rita, I called Nath not too long ago and with the way he is sounding, I think something is wrong. Nath spent his school fee to record music with the hope of replacing since someone promised to give him some money but the person has not been picking his calls for days now.” Pam said as he eats his food but Rita suddenly stopped eating and was lost in thought of what happened in the studio. Anger appeared on her face and she was almost saying ‘that’s good for him’ before she quickly controlled it and said something else. She didn’t leave until it was dark.

Nath lost hope and was going to give up going to school that session since he still couldn’t get his school fee and it’s just one day left. The last option on his mind was to lend money from the student union government and if it is also impossible, he will just have to process a one year absenteeism plan but good for him, the union promised to give him the money the following morning which happen to be the last day. He packs his bags and came to school that day.

He slept at his apartment in the student union building and did not inform Pam that he was around. He woke up the next day and quickly rushed to the union’s president. They went straight to the bank and after about two hours of waiting in line, it was their turn only to hear that he rules has changed. The account they opened did no longer allow the president’s signature alone but two people. They pleaded for long stating the urgent need for the money but all to no avail. Nath was very destabilized and you can see that all over his face. He was so silent and his face was looking so remorseful.

The president was busy calling other executives but still couldn’t get anyone to come around. So he switched to asking all of them to donate money so that he can pay back whenever they can get the money from bank but still couldn’t make an head way still. He became tired and hopeless. Nath couldn’t risk it anymore as it remained just two hours for the official closing of the staffs in school. So he told the president not to worry that he will go for one year absenteeism.

On getting there, it became so obvious that he was late for what he came for. The person in charge is not around and won’t come soon. He left school and went straight to a bar because it was looking like his head will soon burst. He gave up trying and assumed it’s finished for him. He drank to stupor and didn’t leave the bar until 11pmThe union president later got a means and has been trying to call him but he already left his phone in the bar. Nath staggered until he got to the entrance of his room. Pam opened the door after so many bangs.

  Pam wondered what could make his friend be this way and remembered his issue with his school fee. He took u, logged in into Nath’s school account to know if he has paid or not since he knows his log in details.

“God! Let it not be that this guy hasn’t paid. Even if he has not, Lord please miraculously help him” Pam prayed as he surfed the school website. He then suddenly jumped up after reading through something on the site.

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The love of a friend

The love of a close friend!

“I have a feeling that you are hiding something from me.... why are you sounding like this? What’s wrong with you?.... You said you wanted to tell me something, what’s that?.....   No! No! Don’t tell me later, please tell me now; please na.... why are you doing like this? So you have started keeping secrets?”

I know you must have at one time or the other heard and also said this to a close friend or even to your ‘spouse’ and that’s why I’ve come to tell you what I feel is of great importance to be known by you and also to tell our close friends/spouses.

Friends will always be friends unless they are not  good - same as spouses; likewise enemies too. There is always this caring part of them and of course, they will want to know what’s going on with you. So if you are going through a tough time or there’s something you don’t want them to know about because of the reason(s) best known to you, please try as much as possible to avoid giving them an impression that will make them detect what you are trying to hide from them.

Yes! It’s not easy to hide it totally without them detecting but please try your best because they will surely be on your neck until you spill it out or get disappointed and stop disturbing you about it after so much failed trials of which not telling them is a ‘gradual defect’ to that relationship. So it will be best to restrict them from detecting.

But then.....
I’ve experienced it severally and I can categorical tell you that ‘a problem shared is a problem half solved’ and in fact, sharing on its own is a healing process not to talk of the response from such friend- that’s why you need to get someone you can always trust as a friend.

I know you might have been betrayed by some people but trust me, there are still good, loving, selfless and trusted people out there- Tumihub is one of them.
One thing I know for sure is that ‘we all want to be loved and cared for; we all want attention. So wouldn’t it be better if you get yourself a friend you can trust and can share anything with without boundaries?

OMAA

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What are friends for? Episode 15

What are friends for?

Episode 15

Her one click landed her in a YouTube page filled with erotic videos. “I have promised myself not to watch this again and I will not because I don’t want to stir up my sexual drive again this time. I have stopped sex and porn” this thought was busy sounding loud in Rita’s ear but she was already getting curious to see the content.
She paused and couldn’t press anything then she saw a caption that caught  attention "a banana shifting womb" and so her curiosity led her to check it out. A black background popped out with white line rotating at the center.

It took a long time in that spot and Rita almost lost interest only for a 2D cartoon to begin its play; a skip icon attached with it. She figured out it was a sixty seconds ad and so she quickly clicked on the skip icon.

Just about when the video started with introduction of what the video is about, an SMS popped in on Rita's phone but she didn't pay attention it then, the video will not still play. So she decided to check the message and realized she had exhausted her data. She was disappointed and at the same time was happy she wasn't able to watch the video. "Thank God I escaped this temptation." She said as she closed the YouTube channel.

She went straight to bed to sleep but her phone rang. "Hello! Hello Rita. It's me Nath, I am presently in a recording studio around your area. I don't know if you can come around because i really want to see your face."

Rita was surprised. She jumped on her feet and get dressed to see Nath. It took her thirty minutes to get dressed after which she left for the studio.

Nath was called by the music producer to come record the song he had been disturbing him about but someone else was on the mic which meant he had to wait some few hours. He held his note pad on his left hand while his pen was in his right hand. He was shaking his head in all directions as the beat filters from his headset into his ears. At intervals, he murmurs words and hum the lyrics on his note pad. Other times, he will stop shaking his head and will start to chew the cover of his pen while his eyes look straight to the sky like he was focusing on something only for him to suddenly remove the pen from his mouth and start to write in his note pad. He will sing along with the tune using the just written lyrics then stop at some point to correct something before he continued singing.

Nath continued this as he sat at the waiting room of the studio which was just behind the entrance into the studio. The studio itself is on the first floor which prohibits you to knock or come in if not called upon because if you do, you will be sent out of the studio. Starting from the entrance, the illumination of the studio is so dim that you hardly see the colour of your clothes. The lamp used are multicoloured without white in it. It all together emits a cool sensation especially with the fact that it’s sound insulated- there are no windows and as soon as you shut the entrance door, the silence is almost a hundred percent.

Rita alighted from a bike as she looks around. She dug her left hand into her back pocket to bring out a two hundred naira note and gave it to the bike man as she operates her phone with her right hands. ‘I am sorry for using my left hand’ she said. The bike man said ‘no froblem’ in his Hausa influenced pronunciation and left to pick the lady standing at the other side of the road.

Rita tried calling Nath on phone but the network won’t allow. She looked round and asked for the studio around. She was directed and then as she walked few distance, she saw the studio and walked towards it. Immediately she got close to the entrance, Nath sighted her and rushed out to welcome her. He hugged her so tight and lifted her up too while Rita was screaming instead. He didn’t take his hands off her waist and at some points, he pecked her. ‘Bae, I’m sorry I didn’t reach out to you but I miss you so much. Thanks for your wishes yesterday and I also appreciate your coming today’ he said as he looked into her eyes.

Rita look away and was trying to free herself from him but he wasn’t going to allow. ‘So, it’s true? Because I just confirmed it. Why must you get drunk because you want to record a song? A song that you want sane human to listen to is what you are writing in an abnormal state?’ as she was saying this, Nath let loose of her and was about changing the topic. ‘you better don’t join others. Just because most musicians do that doesn’t mean you should. Be different and sing good music’ she finally concluded.

“Thanks, so much bae. I will work on what you said” Nath said as they walk into the studio. He saluted the guys sitting close to the entrance and walked in with Rita to the space allocated for guests- they both sat on a cushion chair. Rita started pouring out her mind of how much she was angry with Nath and Pam. She said a whole lot and it was already getting boring to Nath so he decided to change the topic and he started with tickling her. “but I said I’m sorry. Let’s just forget about this and talk about something else, please!” Nath said following the tickle but Rita insisted that she must finish what she was saying.

Because Nath didn't want her to, he kept tickling her until she started laughing hard ‘Nath stop. Ok please stop it. I will not talk again’ she said but Nath will not answer. She took the step to bite him in his chest but Nath tried to stop that by pushing her away only for him to push her in her breast. So, she also stopped the attempt to bit him. “Nath your rough play is too much. See how you have made my cloth stained.” She said as she breathes heavily but, in her mind, she was already aroused. It was as if somebody just switched on her sex drive.

Nath look away and was also breathing heavily. He also started feeling aroused which is a normal thing for him to always feel that way any time he is in the studio- he always has a girl with him in the studio which sex is always the main event between them either before he records or after he does while sometimes, the both times but he wasn’t having it mind to do that with his friend Rita.

To curb his sensations, he excused himself and told her he wanted to go see the music producer. He left and went outside to have a breathing space and clear his head of the emotions. He took about few minutes and came back. Rita told him she wanted to urinate and he led her to the toilet but it was dark around the toilet. Rita was scared and asked Nath not to go far which he did.

After few minutes, she came out. Nath was sweating because the air-condition didn’t get to the toilet corridor where he stayed. “eehyah, I’m sorry for making you to sweat like this” Rita said as she walks closer to where he was standing. Nath excused her so that she could be at the front while he walked behind.   

As they were going out, Rita was busy talking as she adjusts her pants but Nath isn’t listening until they almost get out of the toilet, then Nath suddenly dragged Rita to himself and kissed her.

She was shocked and she remained stagnant. He went further to……

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Our mother's DNA

OUR MOTHERS’ DNA

“FINISHED? But our guests are not more than five hundred and if I recollect correctly, about three thousand meats were fried yesterday. I don’t believe that!” the bride left to continue dancing with her husband.

 But, how come meats /food are not always enough in parties?

But then, I also read about the story of Jesus’ disciples that fed a lot of people with the miraculous five loaves of bread and two fishes and still had so many remnants of not just bread but also fishes too. Come to think of it, if it were our mothers or our ladies, don’t you think there will be a problem? I’m still looking for that party where it will be only guys/our fathers to see if we will still have the ‘meat scarcity syndrome’

‘The eagle’s eye is the best way to describe our mothers’ eyes in any party and just like the eagle, they most times never miss their targets especially when they have to fill the tank they brought which would be under their table or rightly placed in their fancy big bags.

“The party is not interesting and I almost regret coming. It’s not even well planned at all.”

You will also hear this from the group of mothers who couldn’t meet their target for the party- YES! Our mothers are better analyst; even better than the football analyst whenever there is a minimum of two of them together.   
 
Even my mum ‘Iya Michael’ is also an expert because I’m always rest assured of party food any time she informs me that she’s going to a party especially when we are going together, she’s always on my neck until I get my own food which most times always get me angry because of the attention focused on us as she performs her magic to get me my food, but I love her still #Smiles#.

Our current ladies, I hope you are big girl enough not to follow their footsteps- at least take more of the fathers’ DNA.   

My point!

Favouritism is a major factor that needs to be eradicated for a society to be fair and just or at least be mitigated if it can’t totally be eradicated.

Join me in looking through the cause of almost all the problems you can ever think of and see if you wouldn’t find either selfishness or favouritism as the leading factor.

Yes! Favouritism is sometimes unavoidable but I have seen people who are intentional enough to reduce it to the barest minimum and for me, I’m working towards that too.

Don’t you think it’s time we began the change we desire, first by removing the log in our own eyes - favouritism and selfishness? Then we can think of what next!

Before you unfairly favour someone because of your position to make such decision at that moment, remember how you feel when you finally get to a party after going through traffic congestion while starving and being cashless, only for you to be informed that there is no more meat/food, and you get to still see some selected people given food even at that instance when you’re being told otherwise. 

OMAA™

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The brand Tumihub

The brand Tumihub

DNA: maybe you don’t know that you cycle through three worlds every day. These worlds are THE EARTH, YOUR MIND, and THE ONLINE WORLD- the internet.
Tumihub is a linking point that gives a better regulation of these worlds. How?

PROMISE: the how

1. We are the listening ear you can always share what your mind is thinking with anytime and is always ready to give the help needed.
2. We are always on time to give you the information you needed/asked for and also giving updates as regards the happenings in the online world.
3. We just want to ensure that you are the best you can be on the earth you live in
WE ARE THE 3 IN 1

VALUES: We believe that everyone is unique and can succeed in everything they do in as much they are in their right conscience.
To Tumihub, you are more than what you think you are!!!

Vision: We don’t just want to get by; we want to live well; but our foremost effort is to help others live well.

1. Easily accessible both online and offline
2. Building an offline community to accommodate thousands of people where everything is free- fulfilling our DNA.
3. Having at least a tumite in every society of the world, living intentionally and with a very good conscience.

Drivers: what are you looking for? Are you looking for:
1. Listening ear, acceptance, fun, a platform to explore, a family, expression, or a platform to showcase?
2. Inspiration, motivation, advice, counseling, or intentional contents- not just anyhow
w content?
3. Career opportunity or a spouse?
4. Even if you aren’t looking for anything or you don’t know what you are looking for,
Tumihub is a better option you can always trust.

Personality: listens, engage and serves without barrier.

Touchpoint: 
1. Every member is a shareholder.
2. Two-way communication- constantly engaging the audience.
3. Every voice is very important.

Tumihub is the free mode of Consultant_OMAA

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Am I not a human being too?

Am I not a human being too?

I have not come for anybody this time but I’ve come for your mentality! Yes you!

Why will you stereotype human ? That person is first a human before S/he got the attribute you are reverencing to and no matter the level of attainment that person must have gained, he’s still a human and there’s no doubt about that.

If you care to know what I’m talking about, then let me tell you my story;

There are several times I have had people accused me that they were disappointed because I did some certain things, they didn’t expect me to do. I must confess that I appreciate your sincerity and love for me because if not that, you won’t even bother to tell me about it but like I said, I have not come for you, I have come for the mentality. 

I have heard people say “a whole you? How will you put up a picture of yours without having clothes on ?” and I am like so I cannot post my beach picture and what does that have to do with who I am? So, because he is religious leader, he has to be perfect? Or because S/he is a highly respected person, S/he can’t get angry?”

Let me clear the doubt you might be having right now by saying that I really do understand that ‘to whom much is given, much is also expected’ and that it is a normal thing for people to place some sort of high expectations on some people but please there are certain things that I think we aren’t looking into before we make our judgement.

Actually, posting pictures of a nice time in beach isn't bad. At least to show your circle of influence that you also encourage having a nice time. In fact, there are times I do some things just because I want people to feel that sense of belonging- I wanted a platform where I'll be easily accessible. Some times, I just wanted to show that I am a human that want to live a normal life like every other persons.

After all, if it's not a bad thing, then why judge your stereotype?

"He's high profile person and I didn't expect him to do that sort of thing" if this is you, can you as well look at it that the person you are talking about is also a human like you.

I see some people who took the wrong path because they concluded that "If someone that's respected can do this, why can't I?" But i want to ask, "Is that person not a human being too?"

So why choose to follow his/her wrong path?

OMAA™

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