Let me buy your time

Let me buy your time!

Sometimes, I think God is partial to give you more time than I have. Though we both have 24hours in a day but how come you still have too much time for pleasures? How come you never get too tired like I use to? How? Why?
Yes! Of course I have tried applying different time management skill but I still don't have the time like you do.

*Please can I buy your time? How much will it cost me?*

If you are like me saying this, then let's put our hands on deck to tackle this to our own best interest!

 *How then can we tackle it?*

Let's think deep and get the inspiration!
As soon as you get one, please gladly let us know @TUMI and we will put all the ideas together.
*There is a reward for anyone that participates in this.*

2018 must not steal our time. Not anymore! We will now invest our time.

I am off to my creative table... where will you rather go?

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INTER-VIEW 2

*INTER-VIEW 2!*
*Concluding part of the duet between Precious Pen and TUMI*
The young lady sighed. All eyes concentrated on her which makes her gets so shy. She nodded to affirm the advice of the interviewer and at the same time was angry at the spot she was in. so with annoyance, she rushed out of the room to cry her eyes out at a bar nearby. She was not just crying because she was embarrassed in public when trying to get her dream job; she was also crying because of the present status of her marriage. Her loving, caring, down-to-earth, perfect, sweet husband suddenly changed few months after their colorful marriage. He no longer goes to gym house because he now found one in his new home-her wife.
While crying, the words of the interviewer just kept coming to her mind. She now understands one of the reasons she is being maltreated by her husband. She couldn’t stop crying when the interviewer said that;
 
*Are you married to him, but in a short while, you begin to sing that
"He belittled you. He do shout on you. He this. He that"*
 *Wait let me ask you "HOW DID YOU COME?" What attracted him to you in the first place-your boobs or values?*
*On the long run, what is keeping him relating with you? Has he been seeing the assets (values, great power, virtue) in you or he is only seeing the physical assets (boobs, breast, curves, skin colour, make over, etc)?*
*Was your in-to-me-see (intimacy) on your great values and great power source or only on your body asset?*
(SIGH) My greatest fear is our innocent young girls and boys. They wake up to this world to see all of this and will most definitely view it as the descent way of dressing which of course is already happening. As if that is not enough, we recite it to them daily to think outside the box and that makes me wonder what their fashion style will be in their generation.
*Please let us fight for feminism in our dressing too!*
Everyone applauded the interviewer. The lady realised how much she has looked down on her self due to her dressing.
*For emphasis, please! Females, dress decently.*

*Watch out for “white whispers” by Precious pen. For order, call: 08160525580. I assure you that the book is wonderful for you!*

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Inter-view

*A duet between Precious Pen and TUMI*

*INTER-VIEW 1!*
     
Few months ago, I conducted an interview. A guy and a lady entered my office. I gave a warm welcome to the young man and frowned at the young lady. I sent her out of my office and began an interesting interview with the guy. Few minutes later, we over heard voices and decided to check what was going on. The young lady told the other applicants how I refused to grant her an interview session and chose the other guy. She claimed to be a feminist . She said *"WE ARE THE SAME, TREAT US WELL!"* I chuckled and replied ' Then fight for that in your dressing!' She became dumb founded and others realized I made a point.
 
*'How? Why?' She asked*
PLEASE LISTEN!
You have the power to change the mind of every sexually inclined person. Females are the pillars of every home. The men are supposed to plug into you just like an iron is plugged into the socket. The men are the appliance, machine while you are the socket-the source of energy. You are more powerful because you can provide too much power that can explode the machine but….
* But just when you dress like that! The way you dress portrays and tell so much about you.*
Imagine! Just in that dressing, you are telling a man that;
* Please!​ I need a man to plug into me.
Now let me ask: Is it the power bank that needs a phone? Stop saying "i am independent"
* Can't you see me; see me now; just take a look at me and when he eventually look at you, his mind is automatically suspended, then his eyes now replace his mind. That's called lust. You made him do that.
* Nobody is coming before but I think with this, you will be interested.
* I can do this just to have you since you aren't coming naturally.
* I need your comments. Tell me i killed it. Tell me i am sexy. I want to be famous too and i think this is the only way for females.
* I haven't upgrade or i am not up-to-date if i don't dress like this. And so on.(feel free to add yours)
  With you saying all this to that man just in your dressing, what and how do you expect him to do in the future after approaching you in that way? What way do you want him to view you. Yet, you are the major role fighting for feminism.
Yes!
You can not claim to be equal to a man when you haven't fully eradicated some areas that will pose a problem to you. Feminism is beyond equality. It is more than that. ‘reported cases of rape and other sexual harassment are the order of the day but have we come to realize what causes them? Modesty goes a long way to preserve innocence.
*Exposing all parts of your body won't make you achieve your dreams instead you may lose them.*
 The young lady sighed. All eyes concentrated on her so she gets so shy. She nodded to affirm the advice of the interviewer and at the same time was angry at the spot she was in. so with annoyance, she rushed out of the room to…
To be continued…
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There is always an exception!

*There Are Always Exceptions!*

Note: I will be glad if the reader can use my glasses while reading this so as not to misinterpret me.
“Look mike, I find it difficult to believe that some relationships from high school don’t end in marriage.”
“I still believe I can pass exams without reading after all I watched the film 3-idiots”
“In this world, i have seen dropouts become the world richest- employing the most educated. They were even awarded honorary degrees.”
 Of a truth, there are always exceptions. They are those that break the rules to doing what we said it isn’t logical/possible. But little did we know that there are some factors that qualify them to be among the exceptions.
When all you do is to give EXCUSES excusing yourself from the truth, then the kind of exceptions you might get is when you belong to a believing religion. But aside the supernatural exceptions, exceptions come to those that really know what they are doing!
Even the Bill Gate and Mark Zuckerberg you are using as an excuse where not sitting idle and just hoping for the best. They pay the prize! The film 3-idiot you are talking about didn’t give a picture that the actors didn’t pay the Prize! Even the couple that had a longer courtship from high school follows the rules.
*My point…*
The rules breakers most times knows the rules in and out; must have follow the rules before trying to long for more - breaking it!
You don’t have to stop every other things hoping for the exceptions. Even when the exception comes, let it meet you on the right thing at the right time. *The “now wealthy” Olajumoke the bread seller that hit the luck while toiling on the street!*
 Read to pass exams; get good education; wait till you are ready for a serious relationship; then don’t stop there. Find your uniqueness; go extra mile. Be the best you can be! *Create a suitable platform awaiting the exceptions*

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*In search for my Willy!*
Where is that damsel that would rather colour my vision?
Where is that specially made God's provision?
Where is my perfect half?
Where is the heart that can pray on my behalf?
When will I see my kokolet?
When will we become Romeo and Juliet?
When will I lay beside your pleasant body?
When will i enjoy what others are eating wrongly?
How will I Identify the strength to my weakness?
How will my heart beat when i behold you?
How on earth will i stop thinking about you?
How long do i need to wait?
How i wish i am trapped by your bait?
Please wait for me oo.
I can't wait to see you oo.
I am preparing to give us a wonderful future oo.
I am so hungry for you oo.
Because I have been starving for you oo.
Can I count on you baby boo?
I hope you are not cheating me?
Because I am trying to come to you in tear-rubber.
Hope you are not turning to be a sample for other guys?
Even if you make mistakes before, please create a border.
Reorientate to wait for me your real guy!
Here is my expectation babe, that;
You appear stunning like a diamond,
Your chin so smooth like fresh mango,
Your walking step directing me where to go,
And of course I wish I can be your one and only James Bond.
*#still searching for you!*

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Don't be rigid!

*Don’t be rigid!*
*Concluding part of the series on provision*

Setting a vision should not be in a rigid form that you cannot alter any part of it. If new things, advice, or improvement appears to you, don’t just ignore it without checking through it if it is really needed. Make sure you think about it and meditate on it, then if need be that you should ignore it, don’t hesitate to do that likewise if it is the opposite. Think if it is
T- True
H- Helpful
I- Inspiring
N- Necessary
K- Kind
Even this write up was supposed to stop just at the first episode but the second day I was checking it again, the inspiration just keep me down that I should continue.
TUMI was supposed to be alone before. in fact; I don’t even have a domain name in mind. I just wanted to be committed to my new year revolution to always send a write up weekly but just at the first time I send my write up, somebody said she wanted to join, so I told my close friend and we concluded that day that we make it a community and it grew up to what it is today and I know she’s still growing.
Your journey through life will encounter a lot of needful improvement to your vision and also the poisonous advice for improvement. Just make sure you are flexible or rather put that; let your vision be flexible enough to adapt important change and also be disciplined enough to ignore the poisonous ones!
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provision episode3

*Heart It!*
Provision episode3

After starting with that resources with you, make sure you make plans to upgrade. Set vision on what you need most and put your heart to it. Continue doing what you are doing but think on how to give more quality to it even with that same resources just think outside the box. While you are doing that, commit your heart to getting those things you need to improve your work. List them out and arrange them down according to their importance. And always make sure you have those things you need at heart. Why?
When your heart, mind and all part of you longs to get something, ideas come that enhance the getting of it but make sure it is a good idea you are going for!
I attended a church meeting and the preacher narrated how he got a house worth thousands of dollars. He said after getting the house, his wife ask him how he was able to get it and all he could say is that it was right there in his heart.
After starting to send a weekly write up series to all my friends on social media, the number one need I penned down and put to heart was to get a laptop. Despite struggling to make a living, in all odds, after all savings, I got the laptop few months after. I plan using my first four month savings at my IT but it didn’t work but the next four month produce it. And if I tell you the way it happened, you will laugh.
So don’t just stop at the little beginning, make all effort to improve. Don’t give excuse, just keep it to heart and make sure you are committed to the good ideas that comes to you.
*To be continued*…

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provision2

*Continuation on provision*

If you have gotten I life changing, selfless, others oriented vision, I want to congratulate you for the great success accomplished. But you still have part to play in getting the provisions needed. You cannot cross your hands waiting for the provision to come automatically.
So if you are the one saying that you have a lot of ideas, innovations, inventions, visions but there is no money to execute it. No sponsors to help you so you are about giving up and reluctantly joining others chase money in different ways; please listen to this if it will help you a little bit.
You can start with those little resources on you right now! Don’t excuse yourself from starting by saying that you don’t have this or that. That one you have with you, use it. Yes! You have something with you right now you can start with. It might look little or outdated or stressful or whatever but just start with it. It’s very important. Do not despise the little beginning.
 When I started this writing of a thing, I make use of my small android phone with bad touch pad and screen. In fact, it was a lot of work but at least I started something. Many people make jest of me whenever I told them I make use of my phone but that doesn’t stop me. Now, by the grace of God I have a laptop and now a tab to ease the work.
Just look around your assets you will discover you have something to start with. If you are still saying that there is nothing, then I think you are giving excuse. But if it’s not an excuse, if you will, please let us know at TUMI by writing us using the Gmail below.
Yes! You have the resources for that beginning! It is right there with you. Don’t give excuse just go for it. When? Now!
To be continued…

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Provision or vision?

*PROVISION!*
If I can’t just have 30billion in my account, my problem is solved!
*A man of vision is better than a visionless man of wealth*
Looking at the young ones of nowadays, many of what we run after is wealth. Money, money, money is our song almost every time. Just that 30billion to be set in our account is our dream because you have to be a nigga or a big girl; you have to get a ride-not a motor, buy a confirm house in Banana Island; get as many bae/baby mama or boo around you and most of all live a good life.
 If you are in this shoe, I have come to show you something you need to know. It is one of eye-opening principles I think will be better you know.
 All of those you listed out there need *provisions* to accomplish them. Am I right?
What then is provision? Breaking the word says “pro” and “vision” and if I can still remember, “pro” means *“after”*. *in other words for a better understanding, provision simply means after-vision*
So what qualifies you to get that money or provision you need to accomplish those things are simply *visions!*. According to the word provision, it simply says that you get a vision first!
The thing is; whatever you run after matter most.
If all your goals are money first, then you will continue to pursue it all the rest of your life because even money (provision) says run after vision first. When vision comes first, then the provision will follow-which immediately, or over sometimes but you will surely get the provison needed to accomplish that your vision. Just make sure get a working vision first bro. I mean a life changing vision. That’s the first step my dear. Even the bible says that “…and the young ones shall see vision…”
*So, where is your vision?*
To be continued….
*I have something for you on my do*
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can't you see?

*Can’t you see?*
 Ha! See that bosomy lady complimented by a big ass passing by. In fact, I can’t just resist this.
So you walk up to her to paint the picture you are good at doing. At least just for her body parts that attract you; you can never be shy for this.
Fortunately for you, she is a slay mama with four boyfriends which she calls “play boy1, 2, 3, 4”. But they are not enough because she needs more money. So she smiles at you because she sees in you a potential giver and then gives you a try after some few days. So the game begins!
 *GAME OVER!* she is now pregnant and she believes it’s for you because you are the last person that intrude but this time, she is not ready to abort anymore. So you both are potential parent of a baby. Because of this, you guys have to become full time couples.
A couple with:
No loving relationship let alone courtship-“divorce or loveless relationship on the way”
No genotype check-“possible SS genotype on the way”
No proper preparation for a family life-“hardly two square meals on the way”
No good example for the children-“bad upbringing on the way”
Little or no education-“regret on the way”
No shared value-“boring marriage on the way”
And the most painful part is that it is very rampant and it’s gradually becoming generally acceptable. It’s now the normal. Imagine! Abnormal turned normal. Who then will help?
But wait! Can’t you see?
The society is turning upside down. A lot of broken homes; A lot of displaced children; cultist everywhere; graduates of betnaija, yahoo, lottery; and a lot of evils around.
I know if you will look around you, you can count more than two victims of this.
So do you wish this continue?
If you want it stopped, then it should begin with you. *If you can, one day it will all stop!*

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Why not me?

*You need to read this by Alinna Charles*

*WHY NOT ME?*
This question keeps popping up each time things we expect do not happen.
You went for an interview and to the best of your knowledge you were the most qualified to get the job but alas! You were not employed. Then you ask *why not me?*
    You are beautiful, classy, endowed, a lady who “every guy wants to die for”. But suddenly a rich handsome and good looking man comes out of nowhere and marry the supposed “most ugly” not too classy, not so endowed lady in your neighborhood. Then you ask again, *WHY NOT ME?*
    Sometimes being the most qualified does not get you the job not because you’re being witch hunted, but because the supposedly “less qualified” candidate has something or knows something that you don’t know and cannot learn in the walls of an academic institution - That thing is called *EXPERIENCE.*
Being the most beautiful but unmarried may not be because you are being followed by some “witches” in your village. It could be because of something that the supposed “ugly” lady in your neighborhood that recently got married has that you don’t have - That thing is called a *GOOD CHARACTER.*
So the next time you’re in a situation like this, before you ask why not me, ask do I have the experience or a good character?
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Value in the real sense

*What value really means!*
*What caused the difference?* what is keeping you to stay with someone is the same thing that is keeping your friend away. Why you liked him is the same reason that made her dislike him. When your entire goal is to get the money at all cost, your friend’s goal is to spend his money on that thing he does for free. The answers are all connected to our values!
After a lot of wonderful conversations with different people at every second, minutes and hours of my life, most of my concluding aspects are always falling back on the word VALUE. Sometimes I may not use the word directly but in the real sense, I am actually saying value but trying to use the word that suit the context of our conversation-sometimes I use standard, drive, mentality etc. which finds their way related to value. And many at times, I am always asked the question that what does value really means? Because I proved to them that material things and money in most times are not values. So their next question after accepting my proofs are always what then is VALUE? But most of the times, I couldn’t give them an understandable meaning of value. I do know it but finds it uneasy to explain. But now, I am taking the bold step to bring it out with this little!
                         *“Value can be anything. Anyone-even the ritualist-can have values. But values aligned and empowered                
                       by your conscience is of a better value”*
Everyone's concept of value is based on experiences and knowledge
To me, value is simply anything that is very important to you and at the same time affects your choice of action!
*What did you value?* Money first or purpose; love first or sex; grade first or knowledge; servant leader or boss; competition or combined success etc.
Wonderfully said by Charles Alinna that *"You'll value life more if you survived a near death experience either from a ghastly accident or heart attack. You'll value life less if you've witnessed many deaths either as a soldier or a serial killer. You'll value time more as a student if you're denied writing an exam due to lateness. It cuts across various spheres of life"*
If you can’t remember all the messages we have been passing across all these while at TUMI, please don’t forget to put this in mind. Always ask that “what is the value in this choice I am making. Does it worth it?”! A man of great value is far better than a man of riches with less value! *And great values are approved by your conscience.

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Is schooling for everybody?

*SCHOOLING IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY!*

*“Mr. Lecturer! With all your qualifications, your life time salary is what a dropout footballer gets for just few days. Shai! ”*
*“Daniel! I heard that Michael has now been given admission to TUMI University and you are older than him but you still haven’t gained admission for over 5years now. Did he have two heads? You better use your head and go for special centres! Shai! ”*
*SCHOOLING IS NOT FOR EVERYBODY. IT IS ONLY EDUCATION THAT SHOULD BE!*
But what’s the difference between schooling and education?
SCHOOLING simply teaches the methods but EDUCATION always asks for the principle first!
SCHOOLING ask and shows how only but EDUCATION ask and shows how, why, and why the how!
Schooling says 1+1=2 or 10 and that’s all but education will explain why!
Teach me the principle first, then the method!
Education is not only a *money making machine* that makes you earn a fat salary. It is simply socializing by replacing an empty mind with an open mind. An open mind to Live, Love, Learn and Leave a legacy!
Education should teach you how to make money to live well; how to love everybody; how to learn anywhere every time from anything or anyone; and how to leave a legacy by your way of life. So can all these be thought in the four corners of a school in just few years?
*“EDUCATION IS TOO FLEXIBLE AND CANNOT BE BOXED-UP IN THE CURRICULUM OF AN INSTITUTION”* because even as wide as Google is, it’s just the rudder in the ship of education!
Sometimes ago, i ask some of my colleague at the university if they read to pass or to understand. Fortunately unfortunately, most of the answers gave an impression that they had no choice but to read to pass- Even the overall best student did that also! What!
*Our education system is teaching us to replace our empty mind with a fixed mind filled with emptiness!*
If that is what they can offer us, then let’s stand up! Do it yourself. Always go for the principle first and not the method! Always ask why! Don’t just stop at knowing how, always ask why the how!
You are educated only when you live well, love, learn and leave a legacy!
Will you rather get educated? Or better still, will you start getting a good education?
 
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copy-copy cat!

*COPY-COPY CAT*
My mum said I was light in complexion while I was very young,
Ten years later, I became the photocopy of Wande Coal,
Just because of this weather that burns me black,
“caro white” please come peel off this my artificial bark.
      *Copy-copy, your black is beautiful. Don’t be fooled*
Chris Brown, do you know my best food is Pizza?
When we both know it is “Egusilized Eba”
But you think that is too local,
So you change your taste to cope with the Americans.
     *Copy-copy, make your food internationally acceptable. You know your food is sweet*
I haven’t sold any Yam in days because it is “made in Nigeria”
Just inscribe “made in China” and you will experience homes cooking surplus Porridge
Even if some are still battling with quality, can we still encourage?
Never! You even avoid to be called a Nigerian.
    *Copy-Copy, encourage and improve your locally made products*
You can only speak English and your name is Busola
So your native language is now a vernacular?
How then can you prove that you are from Abeokuta?
It’s not her fault; daddy will scold her if she speaks Yoruba.
    *Copy-Copy, you better begin to learn your native language.*
Before, you prostrate to say good morning sir,
But now, you bend like you are praying after watching films from Korea,
“Can’t you prostrate?” Daddy my cloth will be dirty,
But indirectly you are saying “Daddy! That is too local”
    *Copy-Copy cat, embrace your culture*
Can I continue?
If I will, then I will talk about music, dressing, ETC.
Yes! Na them colonize us, but no be say they make us kolo! Haba!
*Copy-Copycat say “Yeh! Yeh!”
If we can’t make our country proud, who then will?
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*WOW just like yesterday! Celebrating TUMI 1yr*


*Based on reference!*

*Yemi*: hmmm my role model is Rihanna, Messi, and my very best is Kim Kardeshia
*Esther*: Mine is Pastor Adeboye, Don Moen, and Wole Shoyinka.
*The question is:*if you are to state the difference between these two ladies after listening to their role models what will be your possible replies?
Are those people listed above great?
Are they celebrities?
 Is there any difference in them? If yes, then why the difference?
*“Please don’t blame them yet. Everything has a root in something!”*
Here goes a short story about the background of these two young ladies:
Yemi is birthed into a polygamous family. His parents are the CEO of “Lagos babes restaurant” located at the gigantic beach shore. All she could admire as wealth and good living is those pot belly big daddies that drive in their latest specially made cars into their restaurant with different slay mama to have fun. The slay mama of the big daddies are always on expensive makeovers and their clothes worn is enough to stop a moving train to take a glance at their half exposed body part. Even the train is about singing “30billion for your account o baby”
On the other side of the world, Esther is the only daughter of Pastor and Pastor Mrs. Ogudima. The senior pastor of the state largest Five star church who have been able to invite great speaker like T.D Jakes, Pastor Adeboye that also drives in the latest specially made cars with their beautiful wives to grace their programs. Esther took the write part of her parent and served God with her parents.
So…
Don’t blame others for seeing things in the opposite side of yours because “Everything is qualified and quantified based on a reference”. Everyone points at something in their mind to behave!
If you ask Yemi and Esther questions like:
What is beauty? How best can you describe a wealth or wealthy man?
Most of their answers may be different if not all.
 If you want to hear history of your life, just tell Yemi that Kim kardeshian is not beautiful. She will shout with an assurance that “that’s a big lie. A lady with million followers and likes isn’t beautiful? ….”
* “YOUR REFERENCE DETERMINES YOUR JUDGMENT AND PREFERENCE!”*
Before a light can be a light, it also needs a reference to reflect. Point the light to the sky at night and all you will see is the air. Until there is a reference, a light is not a light!
What are you always pointing at consciously or unconsciously to quantify or qualify? Are they worth it? Have you stopped asking why? Who killed your curiosity? * WHAT THEN IS YOUR PREFERENCE?*
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*WOW just like yesterday! Celebrating TUMI 1yr*


*Based on reference!*

*Yemi*: hmmm my role model is Rihanna, Messi, and my very best is Kim Kardeshia
*Esther*: Mine is Pastor Adeboye, Don Moen, and Wole Shoyinka.
*The question is:*if you are to state the difference between these two ladies after listening to their role models what will be your possible replies?
Are those people listed above great?
Are they celebrities?
 Is there any difference in them? If yes, then why the difference?
*“Please don’t blame them yet. Everything has a root in something!”*
Here goes a short story about the background of these two young ladies:
Yemi is birthed into a polygamous family. His parents are the CEO of “Lagos babes restaurant” located at the gigantic beach shore. All she could admire as wealth and good living is those pot belly big daddies that drive in their latest specially made cars into their restaurant with different slay mama to have fun. The slay mama of the big daddies are always on expensive makeovers and their clothes worn is enough to stop a moving train to take a glance at their half exposed body part. Even the train is about singing “30billion for your account o baby”
On the other side of the world, Esther is the only daughter of Pastor and Pastor Mrs. Ogudima. The senior pastor of the state largest Five star church who have been able to invite great speaker like T.D Jakes, Pastor Adeboye that also drives in the latest specially made cars with their beautiful wives to grace their programs. Esther took the write part of her parent and served God with her parents.
So…
Don’t blame others for seeing things in the opposite side of yours because “Everything is qualified and quantified based on a reference”. Everyone points at something in their mind to behave!
If you ask Yemi and Esther questions like:
What is beauty? How best can you describe a wealth or wealthy man?
Most of their answers may be different if not all.
 If you want to hear history of your life, just tell Yemi that Kim kardeshian is not beautiful. She will shout with an assurance that “that’s a big lie. A lady with million followers and likes isn’t beautiful? ….”
* “YOUR REFERENCE DETERMINES YOUR JUDGMENT AND PREFERENCE!”*
Before a light can be a light, it also needs a reference to reflect. Point the light to the sky at night and all you will see is the air. Until there is a reference, a light is not a light!
What are you always pointing at consciously or unconsciously to quantify or qualify? Are they worth it? Have you stopped asking why? Who killed your curiosity? * WHAT THEN IS YOUR PREFERENCE?*
*Congratulations! TUMI will be one year on 23-09-17. We are happy to have you. Celebrate us anyway you wish to. Thanks*

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Leave me alone! i will do it tomorrow

*Leave me! I will do it tomorrow!*
Wonderful one Written by *Olorode Taiwo*
“Once upon a time in a land, there were two good friends who are both curious of their future. This eventually led them to a shaman. At the shaman's place, friend A was told he would become a king while friend B was told he'll become a slave.
On hearing this, of course the one who was to become a king was happy and left for home leaving his friend. Ever since that day, he refuses to do anything but always rehearsing how he will exploit the villagers of their riches when become the king. But his friend on the other hand went to a far village to start farming.
One day, a great famine began in the village where they both stayed and the people started dying of hunger, someone from the village got to know about the farmer from the other village who has more than enough crops and foods, so they went to him and told him to please save them from their tribulation of famine and promised to make him their king if he can do that for them.
That was how the one who was to be a servant becomes the king while the one who was to be a king became a servant in the king's palace.”
*"You cannot afford to misuse time and go scot free"*
 My dear, Time and Destiny works together. Do not waste away the time you are to work all because you have an idea about how fruitful your future will be. It is your future and only you can make it happen if u spend your present TIME judiciously making the right choice.
*“My God! Please leave me I said I will do it tomorrow”*
But hasn’t your tomorrow come? When will it come?
Failure is not limited to just academics failure but failure in all facets of life you procrastinate.
Pleasure which consumes time and work which strengthens us are some of the ways of escaping and forgetting the conception and sensation of Time.
There is an appointed time!
How can I do the right thing at the wrong time? Is that possible? But
Is having children good? Then why do some still abort?-the first child for that matter. So have I answered your question?
Time must be used as a tool and not a couch according to *John F Kennedy* and I say, live everyday of your life as the last day of your existence. Then ask yourself this question; *what will I do with d last precious day of my existence?*

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can't a lady ask a guy she loves out?

*Why can’t a lady ask a guy that she loves out?*
I saw a guy and I loved him. I have watched him for some while and I tend to love his personality. But why can’t ask him out?
*NOTE*: this is just an advice from a point of view of which there might be many better views.
Bimpe! Let me talk to you. Open your ears and listen.
Seriously, I think there is nothing bad to fall in love with Bayo’s personality and make a move to *ask him OUT!*
 But wait o; ask him out for what?
You see him, his dressing is high class; the way he talks is so sweet like Pizza; he his good and popular at what he do; he is an extrovert; he has your suitable body features; he walks like a model; he… and you have watched him for some while, he isn’t a bad boy like that! And you loved him for that!
 Is it that simple to love? Or are you trying to practice the American films you have watched?
Will you Open your Brain and listen?
Going into relationship with a person is a strong thing- be it friendship, courtship, dating etc. but I wonder how this generation just renders their manifesto to a lady so easily.
*“You saw her passing and you liked her like that. You approach her and you apply your formula-almighty formula. At the end, you get her mobile number and then you start the 4unit course with her and after some days, months, or years, you finally win the election to register your name to join her boyfriend’s list.” Shai!”*
And you want it be meaningful or last long? Maybe just few can.
*Let me teach you a better style.*
The key word is *“value”*
Before you buy jewelry what do you check? Is it the Beauty alone?
That precious strength that he/she possesses, that when added to your own will give a product like Shawama so sweet. Your passion that aligns with his/her dreams just like bread and butter.
Wanting to go into a relationship should be on the basis of value from a goal oriented one!
So Bimpe, if you have found that guy of Value, what then should you do? How do you go about it?
*“A serious and better intimate relationship is built on a solid foundation of friendship”*
So, just make sure you try to connect with him till you guys become friends. At least you have asked him out also. How? You are now friends! And it is the best ask out for a start.
*NOTE:* if you want me to go deep into detail, then i will be happy if you will chat me personally on whatApp (0816287982) or use any of the platform stated below. It is a principle you need to know and I will be glad to let you know. Thanks in anticipation.

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But Why?

*BUT WHY?*
Visualizing around the ages,
Viewing all the ladies,
Variation in all the stages.
Not even a value added lady,
Violating all the laws,
She just keep on crossing the lawn.
Various men trapped by her bed till dawn,
Sonorously singing “oh baby!”
Vicky! Haba!
No more bra?
All men longing to hide under your umbrella.
Not because you are a vision carrier,
Most times, it is the under,
The one you refuse to cover,
That is making them go gaga.
But who then will be my Val?
I mean value added landmark.
I don’t know if you bother.
It is those under the cover,
I mean Jesus border,
Not those that use Him to cover,
But those that really take Him as brother.

*Happy birthday Philipbabs!*
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The littles

                 THE LITTLES!​
*Dedicated to:* Philipsbabs
*“Just as food is to the body; make over is to a bae (slay mama); and an apple laptop is to a Gboy, so as those little mission is to those ends you have in mind.”*
"He that is faithful in little will be faithful in all" is a timeless principle that caught my attention some months ago. I later discover that INTEGRITY is that one word that can best describe it. Follow us as we unvail or remind you a secrete you neglected long time ago.

Many at times, Most of all our aspirations are what we are not having in our reach and that of course is good. After all it is better we begin with the end in mind.

 While some are scared of the possibility of their visions, some are still bothered on how to start, and some considering some things which i tag “excuses...” All of which are the the fight-backs of a heap of failure of the littles we plan to achieve. Those littles may look so small that you don't even bother much about it but my dear that is the beginning point on the lane of greatness.

One time or the other, we have made a decision to do something always or periodically which we have even forgotten we said that just because of its less effect or littleness. Examples of those can be
 Stretching your body every morning
 Carrying water flask containing drinkable water everywhere
 Night shower
Reading everyday
Praying every morning
Saving a particular amount periodically
Using the toilet every morning
Making new friends periodically
Having a quiet time
And lot more. If you are pleased, write yours down as soon as you remember.

We have so much despise these littles that we don't know they count. Yes! It is very important just as important as your highest aspirations, visions and purpose.
*I here someone ask that can we all be leaders?*
 Yes of course, we all can be a leader but the leader in you starts when you begin with the compliance to those little things you plan to do consistently or accomplish at a specific time. Sometimes, we may tend to forget, but you can always go back to it as soon as we remember or we better write it down so that we can always review it.
*I perceive another person ask why this is as important as our greatest aspirations*
Let me tell you emphatically that,
 Just as the rudder is to a ship; a foundation is to a building; food is to a body; make-up/over is to a bae (slay mama); and an apple laptop is to a Gboy, so as those little missions is to those ends you have in mind.
Why?
When you make those promises to yourself, little did you know that it's already stored in your subconscious. So that is why when you later remember after many years of neglecting it, probably when you see someone else doing the same thing, you felt some disappointment within you but you may forgo it after some seconds just because of its littleness and less effect but unfortunately, the brain has registered a failure already.
It's quite unfortunate again that many of us have made a lot of little promises and have failed to accomplish them which has led to a piled up registered failure in our subconscious. But the opposite happens when you achieve them. It gives multiples of success that is enough to back you up when you dream about a very big ambition. It just keeps saying "you can do it!” just as why you want to approach that long admired lady after watching an Indian love film. Smiles
I don't believe anyone is a dullard or anything is so hard. If only anyone in that state of mind can regain his integrity, do away with biasness and start his focus on the little.
You wish to know mathematics or any calculation based subject, then start from the little. Start as low as multiplication tables, BODMAS, conversions, etc if you don't know them. When you achieve in knowing those little ones well, you will be happy about your learning. That will motivate you to move to the next level. That's what i do when i teach.
Finally, there are some people that will land on the right track of greatness if only they have continued with those little things they abandon. It’s not too late to start. Start now.
How you do one thing is how you do everything. Be faithful in little so that you can be faithful in all.

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my guy will understand!

*Do you think of asking this question sometimes ago?*
*Question:* as a female, Is there anything wrong for my male friend who is just a friend to come stay with me? Or
 He's a friend and he just wanna stay with me for sometime. The problem is Not in his staying but how do I tell my fìancee about it?
*Please listen*
 Na wahala be that o. It will be somehow expensive decision to tell your fiance(or not to tell him) especially the one you yourself know he is that so jealous type. Some people are naturally jealous. They jealous even when no string is attached. Just friends. So that kind of person will be hard to tell such kind of things.
I think it's just few people (fiance) that can understand without doubt. So it's a delicate issue.
*Still on the matter*
I will not advice any of my friend to do such a thing even if he knows that his Fiance will accept it
Why?
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 "my fiance will understand. He is understanding. He knows that my friend very well... This... That"
Look at it in this way:
1. what about when he seek advice from his friends or someone and they poison his mind?
2. What about if what you know about him is just a drop of water in an ocean
3. Add your own "what about" too
So I ask; you consider all the what about?
 *Besides that,*
Still on my own thinking and my own map of the world,
I wrote something not quite long about friendship with opposite sex (go to www.tumiministry.blogspot.com if you need to see it or ask me personally for it)
*What's in there?*
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 Going into physics
A law which applies human says "unlike poles attract, and like poles repel."
When you place two magnet side by side, if they are unlike poles they will repel automatically even when nobody touch it if they are in the "field" but if they are like poles, they will attract automatically.
*What does that means?*
There is a field where opposite sex attract automatically (except when they are relatives). Both of you didn't think of it like that, but you both Don't​ know how it happened. Nobody seduces the other, it's just a natural principle. *It will definitely attract automatically in the field*
 *Why am I saying all this?*
When everything eventually went well and your fiance gives you the go ahead, you must also consider the *field* so as to avoid story that touch. Smiles
So as not to write too much, I conclude with this;
Prevention is better than cure. So find a third alternative. Get a way where both of wouldn't stay together.
*Note*: The principle applies to everybody but the advice doesn't apply to everybody. There are always exception but know yourself and make the best move.
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the Third-alternative!

*THE THIRD ALTERNATIVE!*
“Wow junior you scored 50% in the last exams. That’s good but one thing that I will happy about and will be expecting very soon is when you bring home the best result just like Tracy. (You wrap your hands around his neck). I know you will make me proud!”
“Did I just hear that you misplace the whole bunch of keys for the office? Take this spare from me because I am sure that from now, you will make this very safe.” Will he?
“Did you draw this Becky? Wow you are beginning to improve. No wonder our customers were just able to point out few errors! I am definitely sure that if you can practice more, very soon you will Wow the world. I will suggest you pay more attention and take your time when drawing. Feel free to come to me.
“Temilade, I am very sure that you really don’t want to pay attention to mathematics because if you will, you will soon be the overall best student in mathematics.”
 *Third-alternative is just like helping a child to crawl by placing his best toy a little distance from him. It is making a snail see it in himself that he can be faster than lion.*
*It is helping you see the fault by your own self with the enthusiasm of making it right!*
*It is using* “I was thinking if we can …” rather than “we have to …”
*It is simply saying that* “I was thinking if some writers will ..” rather than “writers with their useless clichés”
*Will you rather make use of the third-alternative?*

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Criticism!

Criticism
 Bgaam! You zoom your sport lovely car on a steady tiled road to quickly visit your good colleague at work.
 You are about knocking his door but something tells you to eave drop before knocking and you obeyed.
 What you here is a conversation that you are interested in. Do you care to know? If yes, here it goes:
Mr. X: just imagine! That your volatile, too-forward, half-hearted, friend called…(he was referring to you). He will be doing as if he knows it all (he painted you black and exaggerate so much). You really don’t bother because you are not in good terms with him so you await your friend’s response.
You were shocked when you hear your friend’s respond. Instead of defending or at least shun him, he added to it. You, standing right at the door mat, how will you feel? What will you do?
 Haba! Just exactly how you will feel assuming you are the criticized as illustrated in the scenario above is what criticizing does to the criticized.
Have you experienced criticism about a person you haven’t met but you disliked him/her immediately?
Criticism can make the listener get frustrated and wanting to harm the criticized. It can also make the criticized think suicide or bring down his rising potential or zeal.
 Just mention a celebrity and ask for people’s opinion about him and you will hear a lot of criticism most especially in politics. Check Facebook or any other social media to prove me right.
 I must tell you my fact that criticism is not the best solution to solve problem you have discovered. What it does is negatively affects the listener and the criticized.
“Do unto others what you want them to do to you”
 I have discovered that many (if not all) of those you criticize, you know little about them. All your proofs are based on the information you got from a third party some of which are not correct or exaggerated. Even if they are all correct info, criticism I think will not solve the problem. It hurts and never strengthens the relationship but rather demolish it and build up hatred.
The only advantage is that it gives you attention which is unnecessary.
 I don’t dispute the fact that there might be truth in what you are saying or you are trying to be honest and saying things as how they are but it is only few people that can pick out your point in the use of your words without having negative feelings about you.
 Definitely, there are better means of passing info of any kind or without leaving a negative feeling in the heart of the partner. It is called “the third alternative”.
Ask! Please ask us at TUMI if you wish to know. Mail, text us to ask for materials on third alternative!
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Dedicated to Adeyemi Adedeji and Famakinde Micheal.
     

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Ignorance/awarenesses​ VS choice Final Episode

*Ignorance/awareness​ vs choice final match!*
Episode 8
*Back to the story!*
Into a five thousand capacity five star hall, clothed in a white and red decoration. Beautiful flowers flood the hall. You have to wait at the entrance for about three minutes with excitement wondering how beautiful it was.
Thousands of great and respected people from all works of life have left their busy and tight schedule to organize this great event. The men are on their white clothes with a shining red shoe while the females all looks like a queen on their white and a touch of red gown exchanging pleasantries.
“We will now invite the celebrant to come cut the cake and give a little speech.”
Here comes a 1.4meter tall, young looking old man, walking towards a gigantic award winning cake situated at the fore front of the hall. His walking step matches his all-white Danshiki native attire.
“On the spell of seventy, our celebrant will cut the cake. There after we will give him a chance to give a little speech and appreciation”
(Screaming, shouting, clapping and standing ovation was used to honour the celebrant as he held the microphone). I must confess that you all wowed me when I entered this hall. It was really a big surprise to celebrate my seventieth birthday like this. This is the very best I have ever celebrate. Fifty years back was not even looking like this is going to happen to me an orphan but here I am the new Wande. A grandfather, life coach, CEO TUMI orphanage, CEO relevant benchmark association, PhD English studies to mention a few. “It’s my work o…soft work”. And I haven’t stopped yet!
Can I let you know that “singing in harmony is much better than one person singing! Or Rather put that playing a guitar only is not to be compared to playing it with other instruments”
A fulfilled life is simply a life that helps others find their voice after finding his. It is the next best thing to help others find their bearing ONLY WHEN YOU HAVE FOUND YOURS!
Why do you want to die with that great talent(s) of yours?
“I don’t know how to teach. I don’t know how to express myself” “as for me, an artist doesn’t teach anyhow. It’s my secret or else i will lose my customers”
Common, you guys are more than that! Be a landmark. Join the benchmarks. Be a reference point! Impact it. Leave a legacy. Don’t die with it. It’s dangerous! You are more than what you think you are! Finally, everyone in the world will be a world best if we will walk (work) in our uniqueness! But it is better you better your best.
Wande dropped the microphone and everybody clapped for him. Merriment follows.
The music fade away and everybody find their way home. Wande grab his beautiful wife from behind, carry her to the pool side and they enjoyed the rest of the night! THE END.

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Episode7 of Ignorance/Awareness VS choice

*Semi final match between Ignorance/Awareness VS choice*

Episode 7: *It’s not a stigma*

Why do you think you are stigmatized just because you did the right thing lately?
 If you will ask me, I will tell you that lately here is simply human’s timing but on the real sense, what you call lately is really *“ON TIME”* as planned by God. It’s is only late if God says it is. And since you are still alive, God is simply saying it’s never late!
 Hear this “In as much it is the right thing, then it is never a stigma. If it’s God’s time, then it is not late!”
 Were you thinking that you have dwell so long on the wrong thing and that have affected you so much that you think there is no point switching to doing the right thing? Is your conscience telling you it’s too late to switch to doing the right thing?
The best you can do is to switch.
Yahoo boy and looters please switch
Prostitute please switch
Kidnapper, ritualist, please switch. Its better you switch.
What so ever you are doing that is wrong, please switch!
*Back to the story!*
Straight away to TUMI television is a gorgeous lady named Praise (a TV presenter) on a show where Wande is the guest.
*Praise*: (she gives her introduction). Good morning Wande
*Wande*: Good morning Praise. It has been a while.
*Praise*: quickly to our show for today. There are rumors all around about you Wande and we will like to
hear from you what’s going on. It is about you sitting for Jamb. Is it true you wrote Jamb this year?
*Wande*: yes! That’s very correct.
Praise: Wow! I couldn’t even imagine that. That’s deep.
There are many suggestions on why to choose to do so but what is your own reason?
*Wande*: hmmm, I am convinced right within me to further my education if I really want to move to the
next level of my life. It is sometimes restricting me to speak with some kind of people which I will be glad to speak to.
*Praise*: kudos to you. It is not common of people to do this.
 Aside studying, I know you have other plans you mind. Can you share it with us?
*Wande*: of course, the next best thing to do after finding your voice is to help others find theirs. That’s my number one goal at this stage of my life….
What does he mean?
See you in the last episode with the topic which says “To me, you are more than what you think”

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*Ignorance/awareness VS choice* Episode6

Tittle: *long for more!*

Come up a little bit higher!
There are lots of people that are still living in their past glories. There are certain Words that are the normal in their mouth. It’s so close to their tongue. Words like:
1. When I was the……
2. During my (our) own time of….. and many more
 They so much cherish and glory in their past. Just ask them about what they are into today; you will hear a note-filled of excuses. Nothing have they longed for again!
 If people like President Buhari, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, Mrs. Clinton , Bill Gate and many more great men still long for more, then where have you gotten to that you think you have achieved all. Long for more my dear!
 *Don’t!*
Don’t stay too long on a glory or achievement before trying to move to the next challenge to face.
 Sometimes ago, I had told my friends that I hardly rest at home for one week since I have left secondary school but little did I know that it pays. Please! Don’t dwell too long on that achievement. Just come up a little bit higher!
 A quote just flood into my mind which says *“There is nothing that fails as success”* maybe I don’t quote it well but it simply means the success of today cannot solve tomorrows problem or rather put that the medicine that cures Ebola cannot cure Lassa fever.
 So come up! When you sharpens someone’s sword, that’s not all, sharpen yours too if you don’t want to get blunt. A quote said that "when you stop learning, then you start dying" and i am saying that *"when you stop creating- either a problem or solutions- you will remain stagnant and later dying"* therefore, Long for more!
*Back to the story!*
 “Good afternoon sir. It seems I know you somewhere” Deji whispered to Wande’s ear while sitting in a hall filled with laptops. Each laptop handled by a candidate ready to answer the questions that will be displayed on the screen.
Are you wondering what’s going on?
Wande is sitting for Jamb exams. “Yes you are not wrong, you know me because I am Wande the life coach at TUMI” He replied.
“Wow! Wow! Mr. Wande!” Dayo exclaimed. He was surprised. So there was a silent break for about one minute. Dayo didn’t know what to say.
“I know you will be surprised, let’s talk after the exams” Wande whispered to Dayo to break the silence.
So what’s next?
See you in episode7 with the topic which says *"it’s not a stigma”*

Feel free to rebroadcast.
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Ignorance/awareness vs choice2

THEME: Ignorance/awareness VS choice
Episode two: The choice!
The story continues
 Suddenly, the exotic, expensive phone slips from wande's hand. What! Please can you help me complete this statement which says "the downfall of an iPhone is the ...." Smiles. The screen of the phone was facing the floor so that made Wande scared to pick up the phone. In a twinkling of an eye, Wande flashed back to the scene where he got the phone. Interchanging his money for the phone. He shouted with his hand on his head "Mo gbe, Owo jo no oo" which means "i am finished". His head was swelling and reducing in size. He was standing akimbo looking at the phone for about twenty minutes. It was as if he was in an hot sit in "who want to be a millionaire". What should Wande do?
 It's your choice! It's your choice! That is it, yea! It is!
Nothing comes to you without you having a choice to make unless you are ignorant of it.
Happiness or sadness? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Friendly or unfriendly? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Ignorant or informed? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
A lier or the truthful? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Devil or Jesus? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Drop out or graduate? It's your choice? Yea! It is!
Hell or heaven? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Poor or rich? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Success or failure? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
A good or bad citizen? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
Virtuous or valueless? It's your choice! Yea! It is!.
Good role model or a gang star? Its your choice! Yea! It is!
Negative or positive? It's your choice! Yea! It is!
THE CHOICE IS YOURS
 I heared several times that "nothing means anything except the meaning you give to it" just like Adam, he gave every thing created names. You too has that in you.
You said it is failure but many positive minded people called it "stepping stone" while others called it feedback.
The dead you are crying for. The dead in christ is jubilating because that is the best for him.
You called it useless and deadly problem but another sees it as unavoidable challenges to a greater height.
It is your meaning that really matters my dear. That meaning is not just the mere talk but the one that dominate your mind. You might be saying that you are happy but within you, you are sad. Your meaning to everything matters a lot. What meaning did you give that your challenges? What! What is it! It's really working.
 I am not disputing the fact that "in the world there will be tribulations" just as the great book said but i also know that He gave us a choice to make infact a positve one. He said "be of good cheers, because i have overcome the world". John 16:33.Common what is it again? Tell me now.
I resently talked about the mind. You are the only controller of your mind. The great thing is that, the mind is that salt in your food. It is just like the engine in your car. It is unavoidable.
Norman vincent said in his book that "throw your heart over the bar and your body will follow". This is when you see a bar obstructing your progress. Picture in your mind everything above and after the bar. Affirm that you can jump through. That is all you need.
The great book akso tells us that it is what comes out of a man that defiles a man not what comes in. Adam never sin because of the fruit he ate but because of unbelief. If this is new to you, checj Hebrew 5:14. It is called transgressions. Apple cannot make one sin. Why? Jesus said it is what comes out not in. Get my point.
That's by the way. The bible also affirm that God looks into the heart of a man not it's outward appearance just as many people do. So when i am talking about "it's your choice" i mean the one that runs in your mind.
"Get your way of life changed by changing your mind set. Well, its your choice. Yea! It is. But one thing is sure as Bishop Oyedepo says that you cannot be set than your mind set."
 Back to the story
 Its Wande choice. Yea! It is! What was he thinking? He made contributions for five good years just to get a phone. Well that's his choice. Many people who are laughing at him presently are also like him in one way or the other but they are ignorant of this. Well it's their choice too.
If you don't have destination, there is a great tendecy for you to lavish away like a prodigal son. But it will be better if you can just put your thinking into action like your role model (the prodigal son) and go back to your origin or else you will suffer than a slave.
A person with a vision will mind his spending. I want you to know that spending is not all about money alone. It can be time, life, beauty. Yes! You can spend your beauty.
In the book "the power of positive thinking" a story was narrated and it goes thus: Rolly walker said that God runs a beauty parlour. He explained that some girls when they came to college were very pretty but when they came back to visit the campus thirty years later their beauty had faded. The moonlight-and-roses loveliness of their youth did not last. On the other hand, other girls came to college who were very plain, but when they return thirty years later were beautiful women. "What made the difference?". The latter didn't lavishly spend their beauty. It's their choice tho. I said several months ago that "if you are busy doing the right thing, you will definitely have no time for the wrong ones"
Get the right thing and do them right. Are you still thinking about it? It is your best choice my dear.
 Wande's second choice is about three in number. His airtime, complemented by his girlfriend's attitude and the most painful is his newly bought iPhone. What will he do? Or what will he choose to do?
If you are in his shoe, what will you do? Please i will appreciate if you will give me a reply. Well it's also your choice! Yea! It is! See you soon.
Up next in Episode three is the topic "There is a lesson in the bad"

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Will crime continue4

WILL CRIME CONTINUE?
Episode 4
Bank Palava

 Surprised, shocked, you rushed into a bank to make complains and after hours of standing on queue you finally appear in front​ of the customer care and here goes the conversation

Customer care(CC): Good morning. Welcome to TUMI bank. How may we help you?
You: I was expecting the ATM machine to vomit the money i requested but all i see is that my account has been blocked so i rush down here to tell you
CC:(collect your details), 'eeemm' yes! It has been blocked because ....(gives you all sorts of things). So you need to bring this and this to get it done.
You: (Grumbling ) I need this money now. After i have worked for money so i should do more work to collect the money. But he has no choice.
 You get what was asked of after three months of applying for this and that. You rushed back to the bank to tender it
But unfortunately, after two days of waiting for the processes you were told something again is wrong with bvn. Gbam!
Then you start drama in the bank. " What now? For the past three months i have been on this issue. Is it not my money? I haven't been paid salary for three months just because of this. How do you want me to survive? I just have to compromise. I dubiously change figures just to have money to keep up. See what you have caused.(crying).
Banks!
Do you think CRIME WILL CONTINUE? Since the day BVN has been introduced, people now have big problems with their account. Our suggestions at TUMI is thjs: Anything you are dealing with details of a customer, take your time with them. Tell them all they need to know and the implications on any slight difference or are you not concern about the stress we go through trying to correct those mistakes? Stop stressing people on their own my money. What self na? I will keep my money in my house like others that EFCC are catching. Smiles
I still have many things for you but i rest my case here. But please help us with this bank palava so that CRIME WILL NOT CONTINUE.

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Will crime continue?

Episode3
Public transport show!

"Driver let's go now or should we sleep here?"
"Please conductor give me my change before i forget because you people are thiefs"
"Driver why are you taking this route? Pass here now"
"Mr man can't you sit well please adjust"
"Madam pay me my money or you get down now" etc. You can add yours

  Right from where you are picked up to where you alight, there are lot of shows that happens in the bus. Many discouraging events, talk shows are the normals right there in the bus. The vocalist in there are all known professor of our time. Smiles. They can talk, argue even things they know nothing about just to impress others.
 As if that is not enough, Mr and mrs geographer will now start to teach the driver and everybody in the bus the best route to pass. Debate will now start. Those that are stressed all day will now start to react which in turn add distress​ to the stress they have gone through. Discouraging words can be so powerful that it kills motivation, passion, all you have gathered.
  As if that is not enough, another person will now start talks on politics, eaters, corruption, blames on government, and many more. And this for me give more distress because after all the ups and downs of the day, someone will now be talking about those that still money. Won't that frustrate you the more? You struggle to survive and somebody will now steal a very huge amount. They got home frustrated. See all they have been struggling for as a waste of time and conclude with this statement. "Ha! Anyhow, any which way, i must make this money. We will steal this money together. CRIMINAL NI GBOGBO WA"
Now tell me WILL CRIME CONTINUE? Please while we are in public transport, let us watch our words as many are powerful depressing ones.

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WILL CRIME CONTINUE?
Customized Police

  Yepee Christmas eve is here again. Happy, excited, Mr x withdraw #19,000 naira for the "chicken peri peri" for Christmas.
   Gbam!(sound effect). Suddenly someone called Mr x on his way home as of he was a childhood friend but before Mr X knows whats going on he lost his consciousness.
After some two minutes, he regain his consciouness but the money has disappeared from his back pocket. Being an intelligent person, he noticed some on bike and recognize him as the "omo wobe(thief,419)" that did the magic on him. He pursued him and God help him. He got him through a lot of shouting and peoples intervention.
They were about giving him instant judgement when a police​man showed up. He collect the money and arrested the theif and headed foe the station until

STORY THAT TOUCH
Mr x was settling those that helped him with some money on him when the customized policeman showed up again with a story " eeeemm, the theif hit me hard and he ran away". What can Mr X do?
At the end of every payment, settlement he got home frustrated, late, cheated, confused (whether to believe the policeman or not)... How will Christmas be for MR X?
OGA CUSTOMIZED POLICE will crime continue?
Note: everything here is true narration from MR X.

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WILL CRIME CONTINUE?
Episode 1
'Oga boss boss'

Hey! hey! hey! 'oga boss boss. Twale !baba o. Gbe fun! Nla nla' is the eulogy to that wealthy man around some Street guys. After all of that, you gave them money. I mean money that even after you left their place, you were thinking if you are the one that gave them such an huge amount or they use something on you. Smiles
BACK TO YOUR WORK PLACE
Six of your friends and some others work for you. You use them like you do use your ROBOT. As if that is not enough, you refuse to pay them in full.
Worker: sir, my salary is not complete.
You: yes i know. (Clear your throat) 'eeeem' You see i have experience many of my workers here collect their salary and then run away. So i don't want such to happen again.
Worker: but sir, i have plans for the money.
You: Just try to understand. I will pay you the remaining as soon as we get to halfway of this month.
Worker (which was your close friend before you get to this point you are now) saw you the other day, sighs, shake his head and he left your office disappointed, angry, frustrated, cheated(and there you are give some people that don't even work for you such an amount? Chai!). Do you know what is running in your workers mind? Are they wholely involved in your work? And finally , wait!
WILL CRIME CONTINUE? wake up boss boss we are now in the wisdom age worker not industrial age anymore.

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Must it be you?

MUST it BE YOU?
That will be the next sex food of that brother?
Are you just a sample? It is something that should not be done (genesis 23:7)
That will put on rags and call them clothes?
Are you a faithful prostitute in appearance? Addressing you is what you want, then dress well.
That will mislead the boy to do evil? Are you the next Eve?
That will kill the strength of the boy? Are you the twin sister of Delilah (judges 16:5-20).
That will disobey the right command or request? Ask Vashanti, king Xerxes’s wife(Esther1:19).
That will be very good only in female matters? Go ask Samson your brother (judges14:7,16:1,17)
That will take alcoholic drinks? What are your gains from it? (proverb 23:29-35,31:4)
That will deflower a girl and call it an enjoyment? Stop destroying someone else partner.
That will always lavish your parents riches because of your rascality? What ever you sow you will reap
That will have a low grade if no failure? Don’t tell me its your nature. Failure is not a way of life. It is just a stepping stone to greater height. GET UP AND TRY AGAIN “For a just man falleth seven times , and riseth up again : …’ proverb 24:16
That the devil will use as a channel to attack your daddy and mummy a minister? Don’t tell me that pastors children are always wayward. It is a big lie. YOU BETTER GET BETTER.
Why join them? Who told you, you cannot beat them?
Why copy them?
Why compromising
Why immorality?
Why not the Daniel of this generation?

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common love!

COMMON LOVE TURNED SPECIAL; SPECIAL LOVE TURNED COMMON.
Everyone on earth want to be loved even the youngest child of this trending generation but when someone tells you he/she loves you what does it mean?
What runs into your mind when people tells you how much they loves you?
The feelings are always interesting indeed when we heard those uttered word from peoples. There are some Significant terms to treat here so as to know the difference between "COMMON & SPECIAL LOVE"
    this piece of writing will be of help to both teenagers and adult so as to have positive thinking toward the word.
Common love: This could mean Mutual intense feelings of affection and care or a deep liking shared by more than one, Simple, Ordinary or Normal people. A term of friendly address regardless of feelings.
Special love: Unique, of particular interest care or deep liking for a dear, beloved derling.
Here are some questions to be asked;
Where is common love expected?
Why turned special?
What's next to be done?
 The word love is not as special as we all see it but we made it so. Why? If we have followed the commandment to love our neighbor, we will see how common love is.
 I have discovered that this kind of thing is common among the teenagers and the youths. Nigeria to be precised and i have found out that it is due to how we are brought up. It is scarce in our growing up to hear that. Where we here that most is in conversation between lovers. So after many years, we are despirate to find someone to say that to us. We use anything to get it from someone.
 Long time ago on a friday night as about 9pm. I was about going to vigil. My girl lover called me. We talked as usual and droped the call. She called back to tell me that i haven't said something. I guessed for a while and later realised it was that "i love you" i didn't say. After i drop the call, i was happy to say that to someone for the first time. That night i didn't concentrate in vigil. I was just thinking about it. After that day, i will call just to say and hear that word "I love you" from her. Smiles.
Relationships where common love should exist are neighbor, Family, Relatives, Friends, Coworker & Mutual Relationship.
Love have a great significant in these types of relationships. Not just to be acquired in but also to be profess in the mouth I LOVE YOU or simply LOVE YOU. "Because its a common love" its shared among more than one person. Love makes the other party in the relationship committed & ready to be there for you, whenever you show it "that you love" either parent, brother, sister or friend.
Why turned special?:
 An adage says "when a purpose of a thing is not known the abuse is inevitable.
When there is misuse of a word; it sound more than it content.
If the word "LOVE" had been used from the onset, background, beginning i.e from the family (parent to children) when a mere person, friend tells you outside its not longer new to you, instead you'll rather appreciate the fact that the person likes, love you and not hate you.
And also you will have out grown or being able to differentiate the common love (regardless of feeling) & the special love (with feeling).
What's next to be done?
Keith Harrell in his book "attitude is everything" narrated this story;
Taking a survey, how many children have heard their parent say, "I love you'. The night i realized that i had never heard my father tell me he loved me, later that night i called my grandma and talked to her about it. She said something to me i'll never forget. "I know your daddy loves you, but looking back, i don't think his father ever told him. (You see, that's the problem; it started from the beginning, the onset).
Sometimes in life, when you want something you have to be willing to take the initiative (take the move first). I decided that on my dad's birthday I'd call and tell him "I love you" if you want more friends, you've got to be a friend, if you want love, you've got to give love. As a result of that one birthday call, my father and I regularly tell each other "I love you".
Three of the strongest motivating words in the world happen to be the three least used word: I LOVE YOU. Do you know someone who is overdue to hear those words? (It might be your youngest siblings you know! In order for you to get the best from him/her).
Janella, even though she had been treated poorly by her father, she took the initiative and wrote him a letter to try and open communication with him. He refused to read it, she wrote another letter, he didn't read that one either.
When his birthday came, she sent him a large bouquet of flowers with a card saying, "Daddy, I love you". That kind gesture opened the lines of communication.
The best next thing to do now is make a move.
 "If the mountain is not coming to meet Mohammed, Mohammed should go up and meet the mountain" I guess you know that. Make it common to you. Tell it to people you love. Tell it to your parent. It is important you make it common now. Say it to your children.
Look at what the great book says about love in 1corithians13:1-9 message version.
If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don't love, I'm nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate.
If I speak God's Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, "Jump," and it jumps, but I don't love, I'm nothing.
If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don't love, I've gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love.
Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn't want what it doesn't have.
Love doesn't strut,
Doesn't have a swelled head,
Doesn't force itself on others,
Isn't always "me first,"
Doesn't fly off the handle,
Doesn't keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn't revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.
Love never dies.
  Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit....
But you will be tested with the greatest commandmen which is "your love"
TUMI LOVES YOU.

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The bait

THE BAIT!
1. Bro, you notice she is acting funny now a days and suddenly she request for a vigil that on the long run will make two of you alone together for the rest of the night. Wait! Don't you think that's the bait?
2. "Look! Friend 'Criminal ni gbogbo wa(we all are criminals)'. so do the manipulation". Of course That's exactly the bait.
3. You are in need of money and your fiance ask you to come around late in the night for the money. Hmmm.. That can be the bait.
4. You are employed as a regulatory or check and balance to a group of people or an organization. They keep on giving you gifts. That can also be the bait.
5. You are very volatile emotionally. She is very gentle, beautiful and sexy. You both alone in a room and she ask you to help her untie her bra. Hmmm. That can be the bait.
6. You are so happy that you are invited to what you wouldn't attent to before. That can be the exact bait. 'Ayo lo pa omo na(joy killed the child)'
7. Please sir, i didn't write your course well. He replied that that is not a problem. Just meet me at staff quarters by... YEPA! That must be the bait.
8. You know he is a gigolo and promiscuous and you wouldn't listen to his manifestos but he bought you your favourite iPhone. Hmmm that can be the bait.
9. See, me i don't have a girlfried/boyfriend oo. YE! 'Ogbeni ja ra e(be wise)'. That is also the bait.
10. Bimpe, in case you have a problem in mathematics, kindly call me. his nickname on campus is brilliant and sex star and still you prepare going for tutorial late in the night. That can be the bait. You might do more than maths.
 Run away from that traces of bait. Jesus is not willing to loose you. He can leave others just to come rescue you. Come to Him today.
Feel free to add yours and share.

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To the freshers

NOW THAT YOU ARE NEW!
For everything, there is a beginning and surely there is an end to every beginning. What determines the end is the distance between the beginning and the end. "If the foundation ( beginning) be destroyed, what can the righteous (you) do?" Is either the righteous(you) cry on the problem ( or run away) or you work towards getting a solution to the problem ( doing a hard work because hard work as some people do say is the combination of simple work that is supposed to be done in the past). Thank God there is an Alpha and Omega!
Now that you are new, now that you are in the beginning, you have a distance to cover, so you can get to the end excellently, good, fair or bad or even stops on the way (well that is also an end too). The ball is in your court. Nobody can decide your end. you are the only definer of your end. Nobody is the cause or can cause you succeed or fail except you. It is the way you lay your bed, you will lye on it. Whatever you sow, you will reap. You better be wise!
While you were coming from home to resume school, you were like "WOW!" Am now a student, i am now going to school. You were very happy. Your wow here means
W- Wade
O- on to
W- Wit
You as at then have a lot of things you said you want to achieve when you get to school and you have passion for it. Get a book, write those things down, get it pasted in your room. Do that now! Don't waste your time. If you can't do it now, it is the beginning of faulty foundation.
Now that you are new in school, you are now on your own, nobody to control you like they do at home and you are happy for this. You can do anyhow. Yes! That's true. You are free but you need to be wise. You better think. You are here for something very important. You have toiled many years to get in, now that you are here, focus on those things you are here for. You are in school to learn. Yes! To learn! Get it! Get it! Just to learn. Do you understand?
Learn what?
Malcoln Forbes says that "Education's purpose is to replace an empty mind with an open mind"
When many come to school, their believe and mind is to come study that course alone. Nothing more than that.
 No that's not true, you are mistaken if that's the only reason you are in school. This is where you learn;
Good morals
Good relationship
Socialization
Service to God
Passion for purpose and lot more.
Assimilate
Accommodate i.e give chance to people and things. Expecdally things you have not heard before so that you can think about it.
If you have just come to learn that course alone, that means you will not graduate! Unless you will not speak with anybody at all throughout your stay in school which is impossible.
There are many people you will meet and you will also see many things and during the cause of these this thing, you get to learn life. "A fool in school (university, polytechnic, colleges) is a fool forever"
Another person says that "The illitrate of the 21st century is not the person who cannot read or write but someone who cannot learn, relearn and unlearn"
If you cannot learn life here in school, your future outside school will be difficult unless there is God's intervention. If you cannot discover purpose here in school, it's a pity you are missing out.
Many things will come your way, side attractions which may want to blurr your vision but you need to take your stand. Those things that can cause you to fail in school include:
Ignorance: ignorance is a deadly disease. A wise coat says "ignorance of ones ignorance is the minimum requirement to enroll in the school of the fools" this means if don't know and you don't know that you don't know means you are a fool. Ensure you are learned in a lot of things while in school. Don't involve yourself in things you don't know. Don't go where you don't know.
Indolence: don't be lazy. Many people get to school and they get lazy. Nobody to force them do things unlike home. Do the right thing at the right time.
Criticism: there are lot of people in school who are good in criticizing people and things. That's common, this kind of people knows everything so they criticize a lot. You need to avoid these kind of people. Just be sure of those things you are doing.
Friends: you need to be careful in choosing your friends or those you want to walk with. It is very important if you really want to succeed in school. Get good friends that you talk good things together. Not those that you discuss meaningless things together.
Social life: life in school is full of activities and that's what youth like. They get distracted with this kind of life, leaving what they came to study (Building Technology or other courses) but all they learn is dancing rehearsal, music rehearsals, etc. 80% social life on irrelevancies, 10% for fellowship. 10% for their lectures, reading and sleep. What a pity. You better be wise. Am not saying getting socialised is not good but too much of it is not good. Schedule your time and make sure you follow it.
You better be wise and know what you are doing. Remember what people do tell you while coming to school. They will say "o je ranti omo eni ti o n se" which means " remember the son of whom you are" so that when you leave school, you can be happy with what you have gained. This is determined by the kind of WOW you say when you are leaving. For those who failed they were like "what a waste" (Waw!). A successful one will say a big wow which is the " word of winners!" (wow!)
Which one do you want? It depends on you. A word is enough for the wise.
 Do not forget that ALL EYES ARE ON YOU.
Your parent are waiting for you to bring good success home.
Your friends at home are expecting a better you. Some are jealous of you. Make them more jealous by getting a good result and a good you.
Your enemies are waiting for your failure so they can make jest of you.
Your future is expecting you to come quickly.
God is waiting for your manifestation of His person on earth as a success.
The society is waiting for your contribution. Yours is to choose if it's going to be positive or negative.
Lastly, heaven is expecting you. likewise hell. Which one is your choice?
God will help you. Amen.

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are you also among?

ARE YOU AMONG?
"How you do one thing, is how you do everything"
"We must learn to live together as brothers, or we will die together as fools. Martin Luther King"
"If the foundation be destroyed, what will the nation do?"
How are we going to improve and move forward when we do not have qualified tutors in our schools. I always hear people saying youths and children of today are the leaders of tomorrow but the question that always come to my mind is how the youths and children are going to be taught in order to make them what we want them to become tomorrow.
  It's very sadden to see how those who are meant to be genius are lagging behind due to inadequate facilities in our schools and those who are average students now becomes dullards which makes our leaders of tomorrow not capable and competent enough to take the task that will help the coming generations.
 How are we going to build a nation that will produce successful youths that will transmit their success and knowledge to the generation yet unborn?
There are many things to put up in accomplishing this mission and this can be done and carried out by each youth as an individual who is determine to become successful person and not a failure.
 Our leaders of tomorrow must learn to discover and believe in their ability and not in reliance on others. They must be ready to work hard in order to achieve success and not sitting at home expecting success to come to them. Let our parents together with the youths help our young ones out also.
An adage in Yoruba says that " A pot that will taste sweetness must pass through fire" which means youths who want to become successful must work hard so as to transfer it to the coming generation because it takes hard work to soar high.
   There are some certain measures that discredit a person from becoming a competent leader of tomorrow which includes: cheating, gambling and malpractices and this act of dishonesty can bring about:
* discredit in the institution and your certificate
* demeans your intellectual integrity
* promote mediocrity
* cheapen scholarship
* makes you a thief and a cheat
* impedes the intellectual progress of the nation
* can permanently terminate your career
Since the solution of this generation is a child, let us train up our children the way they should grow so that when they grow, they will not depart from it.
Try to work hard to witness the sweetness of hard work

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be my val

Please be my Val!
"BAE", please colour my Vision After Loving (val) you!
   "BOO", please make me Virtuous After Loving (val) me!
 I need someone that can be my Value Added Landmark (val). Someone that can add value to me. Let me see a better me in you. Let me be Valued After Loving (val) you! Let me be able to draw power from you not you draining mine.
All i want is to be Vagile after i Accepted your Love proposal (val)
Please stop concentrating on my Vagina after Accepting to Love (val) you!
Please don't leave me Vacuous After you Left me.
Please Vac All my Lost.
Vaccinate All my Lonliness.
 These are the vals i want in my life and i think that's what you want too. After all val is about love:
Love Cares,
Love Gives(not giving for sex. that's a business). It gives without expecting a reward or appreciation.
Love never condemn because of mistake (just correction in love),
Love makes happy, joyful.
Love never demand for the right thing at the wrong time(i mean premarital sex),
Love never hurt and most of all it build you up! It bring out the best. It never waste your resources. Love is sweet and it is WITHIN. Abi! What then is Love if you can't do this for me "babe"
love is a driving force while lost is a selfish compulsion centralized on gratification.
 Love is for everyone! You deserve to be loved. I love you. TUMI love you! And most of all, Jesus love you. He die just because of you. Come to Him and experience the best love ever.
 If nobody is ready to be your val, i donate Jesus as the best you can have! Read Matthew11:28.
Happy val from all of us @TUMI.
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